You have better chances of connecting with me if you read my profile and send me a personal, communicative message -- more than "I like your photos."
I'm well-educated, fully bilingual, down-to-earth, considerate, thoughtful, low-maintenance, blunt/honest, utilitarian, scientific, clean, good communicator, good listener, humble, somewhat shy, and impatient. A man who is patient complements me well because he helps me take a deep breath.
A good partner for me is educated, sensible, non-temperamental, opened, financially/emotionally stable, good-hearted, athletic and clean.
I like a man who is both refined and somewhat rugged around the edges, who can take charge when the shit-hits-the-fan. Dislike overuse of foul language. I expect you have an array of words in your vocabulary more than the f-word.
Laughing is an intimate experience. You don’t have to be funny, just don’t be a complaining grouch. Funny will come out on its own terms.
The weirdest thing about me is that I find onion breath very sexual. Must be a genetic defect.
I’m sensual and very affectionate, but I’m not a romantic. I treat my man like a king (almost), but I'm not his maid. I walk on the beach because I love nature and it’s good for the heart, not because it’s romantic. I love chocolate because it’s delicious, but it only makes me fat. Touching, kissing and conversation turn me on. I take that back, chocolate all over my body would turn me on too.
I love a man's shoulders and arms. They are so yummy!
I have serenity in my life.
I’m quite flexible and adaptable without compromising my integrity.
Deep sleeping and dreaming are critical to me, therefore, snoring is a deal breaker. I’ve had numerous cognitive dreams, deep altered, spiritual states, and have a keen awareness of our spiritual consciousness.
I am very realistic and strong, and will deal with any situation intelligently.
“Without music, life would be a mistake.” Friedrich Nietzsche
If by adventurous and spontaneous you mean I have to climb Mt. Everest at a moment’s notice, I'm not for you. I love the outdoors, have swam along a huge shark (not by choice, I got there 1st and then he came), have Ziplined in the jungles of Puerto Rico and will take the road less traveled. And I did jump from the platform.
I’m a woman of my word, therefore very reliable.
I don't need your money. I have my own. I’m self-sufficient and don't keep tabs on who opens the door, but I do require a classy man. I’m both liberal-minded and conservative. I’m Cuban-American, and have been stable in Miami for many years.
I strive for balance – meaning emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and financial. Yes, money is great to solve a number of problems, but that’s all it does. Interested in character and self-reflection.
My favorite TV show is Modern Marvels. I like anything science and nature. My favorite movie is “A few good men.”
I like eating healthy and fresh. Like to cook. A man who enjoys cooking gets a lot of points. I can fish from a boat or from the shore, as long as there’s some fresh fish to eat!!
I’m forgiving and don’t hold grudges, much less spiteful. I don't befriend people who are spiteful. I get along with my ex, and I like it if you get along with yours. I’m not a jealous person, and can immediately recognize a man who is abnormally jealous and wants to possess me.
I was born an athlete. Played college volleyball. Was an outstanding short-distance runner. Play tennis. Like biking. Go to the gym. Do yoga. Love dancing, especially salsa which is very sexy. I play congas as a hobby.
I am complex, but not complicated. Don’t like drama and would never make a scene.
I prefer to plan sex mostly because that way the man knows I’m a sure thing. Romantics argue it loses spontaneity. I think sex is always a spontaneous act in-and-of-itself.
I dislike lazyness and appreciate discipline.
I don’t believe everything happens for a reason. Instead, I believe our human intelligence needs to find reason for the things that happen. Random exists, and proven by quantum mechanics. God gets blamed for to many things!
I love animals, but no animals on my bed. I had an amazing Golden who I still miss. My cat knows she’s not allowed on my bed.
If you think we are compatible, I would love to hear from you. I'm easy to talk to. We don’t have to agree on everything, just have an awareness of what is important to each and what we can compromise on.