Hello my name is Brian and I am currently a Volunteer Firefighter. Firefighting has been something I grew up around since I could remember and I just decided to keep the tradition going from my father. When I am not at the fire house I am usually at work transporting our disabled Military Veterans to and from their appointments. One of my favorite things to do in my off time is just relax outside by a river or even at the ocean. I am not sure why but to me there is nothing more calming then the sound of the ocean waves especially at night. There is a feeling that I can’t explain about standing on the beach and just looking out over the ocean. If I could have it my way I would be satisfied sleeping right by the ocean all year long. I am not a typical lets go to Los Angeles can of guy. I am content with packing up the car and going camping for the week or weekend. Don’t get me wrong I would love to go to Los Angeles but I would choose Europe over the west coast. My Family and my friends mean the world to me and there is nothing I wouldn’t do for them. Music is a big part of my life. Especially Country music but I like to listen to all types of music. Some say that I have a vast taste in music.
The one fear I have is not being accepted for who I am. It almost feels like I have to try and conform to what people want me to be. If you want me to conform to your image of what I should be then I am not the person for you. I am going to be just myself and pray for the best. I am focused and I know what I want out of my life. I have things in place for me to succeed in getting what I want. I would like for there to be that special someone who I could share my triumphs with. As far as I am concerned failure isn’t an option. Yes I will fail at something but I will get back up and try it again until I succeed. I believe that I was born to help other people out and that is what I am focused on. If there is anything else that I left out just feel free to ask me. I promise that I will tell you the honest truth because honesty is the best answer.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Many people have their own beliefs on what a first date should be. To me a first date shouldn't be a movie because you can't get to know a person that way. Not saying I wouldn't go to a movie but that would be after a dinner or something were we could talk. A walk down by the river followed by a dinner or a lunch would be ideal for me. However I will take considerations from the other person and hopefully we can reach a comprimise. Some times just being a casual date like going mini golfing or something that you can just be you because we all know how stressful the first date can be. I am not looking to go to a nice high priced resturante on the first date but I am not looking to go to McDonalds on a first date either. The first date should be something the both of you all ready enjoy on your own and lets you be yourself.