Here's the quick and dirty version of me: Divorced, single mom, own a house, have a job, have a car, have a life, independent, outgoing, friendly, smart, funny, trustworthy, generous, loyal, sassy, cuddly, laid back, intuitive, stylish, skilled, mechanically inclined, flirty, nerdy, and willing.
Here's the slightly longer version of me: My kids are at an age where they are pretty independent so now it's time for me to get out there and have some fun, meet new people, go new places, do new things, eat new foods, and experience life. I'm totally comfortable with who I am, I know what I want and what I don't want, I'm not shy about anything, and I'll always tell you the truth, even if it may sting a wee bit. I'm a confident full figured woman, but be sure that I fully know how to use that figure, lol!
I'm looking for a cool dude that's looking for a cool chick. I want you to want to do the following with me......including, but not limited to: dining at unique restaurants, going to the movies (or watching a movie together on your couch), travel to all the neat and obscure places Hewell Howser has visited, go to Disneyland with no kids, check out local new music, go beer/wine tasting, go camping and hiking, or just hang out together and ponder how wierd life can be sometimes. I'm not looking for someone that wants to move into my house or marry me or parent my kids. I am looking for someone who is serious about wanting a long-term relationship and is willing to go through the traditional courting process of picking the girl up, taking her on a date, getting to know each other by actually having face to face conversations and not just short little snippets in texting. Effort and forethought are my main turn-ons. Ultimately, I would like to find that one elusive exclusive who has similar goals and is in a similar mindset and lifestyle as mine but I'm certainly not willing to settle for less than what I'm worth. I will say that I am in no way high maintenance or too unrealistically picky - it really doesn't take much to make me happy - all I'm asking from you is that you're able to take care of yourself, function normally in society, be able to make rational and logical decisions, and not become a baby when life gets real. Hhhmmmmm......maybe that is being too picky?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meet for coffee, lunch, or dinner....if sparks fly, you get to see me again :-)you should messege me if you can type a coherent sentence. You should also message me if you think you have as quick a wit as mine.
Don't message me if your'e just looking for a hook up. And just an fyi, if you messege me and just say "hi" or "hey beautiful", I won't bother wasting my time messeging you since you couldn't bother coming up with something clever to say. Please don't disrespect me by asking "Favorite position?" If you do, you will never have the pleasure of finding out first hand what it is. Do message me if you're open to the idea of a long term relationship (if sparks begin to fly) and you're not still hung up on your ex. Don't message me if you're a wimp and can't handle a woman busting your chops....cuz I don't hold back, but don't worry, I'm not the domineering type.
I am a very busy person with a lot of obligations but I feel that a true relationship requires an investment of my time and I'm willing to put forth that effort and make you a priority...all I ask is that you do the same for me. I am definitely worth the investment!
A side note: I've met several people from this site and they all say my pictures on here don't do me justice and that I'm way sexier in person. Sorry - I don't have any other pictures of myself to post on here - you'll just have to see me to believe me, haha. Also, if we do meet and I'm just not feeling the spark, I probably wont continue with messaging or calling....its not that I think you're aweful or anything...we wouldn't be meeting in the first place if I thought that, its just that I'm not looking to accumulate friends- I have plenty of friends....I'm just really looking for someone with the potential to be an equal partner :-) OK...I'll shut up now :-)