Ever the ROMANTIC yet respectful, I enjoy music, (classical, rock and Bluegrass!) discussing current events, driving, reading, movies, dining out or at home, but relish quiet time also. Am easy to get along with and have a good sense of humor.
Once ran all over Manhattan where I worked for many years, I now favor a more relaxed style. There is nature to see and enjoy, small towns with their book stores, museums, antique shops, coffee shops and more in the Hudson Valley or Long Island to explore and enjoy. Maybe even a boutique you might enjoy and at which I just MIGHT buy you a gift! A drive to somewhere or anywhere can also be interesting.
This sort of "fishing" gets more and more unlikely to "land the big one!". It seems most have lived their lives and while still around would like one more drink from the well or to cast the line out one more time. Is happiness possible this way? Here we are at the rivers edge, let's enjoy the view!
Let's consider making the first date casual, such as a drink or "coffee and". If we both want to make more of it, that door can be opened then and there!