I'm not looking for a woman I can live with in my life, I want to find that special someone I can't live without. The person I think about when I wake in the morning, throughout the day and when I go to sleep. I have a great life and I'm not lonely or desperate. I would prefer my current life then settling for someone to be in my life for the sake of companionship.
I don't want easy, I want crazy! I'm ready, are you?
I have met some interesting people on here and some that were really fantastic, but I haven't met the one. I'm not a serial dater nor do I have any desire to play the field. My faith is very strong and I attend church almost every week, although I don't consider myself religious. I am a father of a daughter and three men in training and my choice in dating matters. I am looking for my last first kiss, I know that's corny but too bad. So I thought long and hard about what to write to make the perfect profile to not only attract you but to eliminate the ones that will stop at nothing to get a man. I am not desperate and I'm not looking for someone who is either. I understand that most of us never planned on being single again and the idea of dating can be exciting and terrifying at the same time so this time I will put it out there and if you're scared, I understand...
I also feel it necessary to say I think meeting and starting as friends is very important to me. Getting to know someone before the romance starts hopefully will help build a stronger relationship. Lets face it, passion can hide a multitude of incompatibilities! This doesn't mean I am afraid of commitment, it does mean I'm not looking to rush into anything. In the past I have been physically attracted to women that shared nothing in common with me, truly sad.let's save us both the heart ache...lol
Who I'm looking for... someone I want to share life with. Someone who enjoys affection, hand holding, dancing in the kitchen, under the stars and in a club or dance hall. A woman who is happy with who she is regardless if she is perfect. An optimist and someone who believes in God. A woman who is passionate about life and who heart isn't closed or hardened. A girl who enjoys the simple things that are all around her while being aware of whats going on in the world.
About me "thus all the I's"
I am healthy and in decent shape and hope for the same in my partner. I am a well grounded man in my personal life and in my faith. I get along great with my ex-wife and her husband and I have no desire or need to change that, it helps to maintain my no drama life and I don't dislike her...lol. I enjoy being a dad incredibly and it is a phenomenal blessing.
I'm missing that special someone or partner to share my life with. I am not in a rush for anything but I have realized if I don't make a effort at meeting someone I might end up missing someone wonderful. I enjoy live bands of almost any genre although I prefer country and contemporary Christian music if I had my choice. I am in touch with my emotions but I view that as a plus, it certainly does not make me weak. I enjoy intimacy in that I don't mean just sex. cuddling, hand holding etc. I am passionate and very loyal and have never broken trust or been unfaithful in any way, Ever. I believe in monogamy only and would be super happy never kissing another woman aside from you, if that is our destiny. I am comfortable in almost any situation and get along with most, I tend to be more of a leader than a follower but I don't believe in being bossy. Through studies on God's plan for men and woman, I have adapted my fairy-tale relationship vision to be the ultimate win-win. I believe when both partners needs are met that is the only way to reach real happiness.
If you made it this far without falling asleep, send me a message and ask me anything. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.
Good luck fishing!