Please do not click meet me but not take the next step to say hello by messaging me. It defeats the purpose of this site. Its a two way street to put work in to show interest. I have just recently move back to the great state of Ohio. I had lived in the pacific northwest aka Idaho for 4.5 years. I am a country boy by nature and love the peace and quiet. I still love to travel and experience new things. Prior to that I spent 9 years sailing the seven seas. I'm at a point in my life where I would like to take a serious look at getting into a relationship.
What am I looking for? A woman... Not just any woman. Someone kind, level headed and knows what she wants for the most part. Being in my 30's has been an interesting time. If just like to share it with someone else. I save the details about who I am for a friendly hello to spark a conversation. Don't hesitate to message me. Never know what you are missing. Life's too short.
The thing with online dating is people are looking for the "tall dark and handsome" perfect in every way. Well i been there done that got the tshirt. The prettiest girl in the room typically isnt the most secure and doesnt bring to the table attributes that attract me.
Appologies for the lengthy description below. However if you feel intrigued enough to read. At least send a kind hello. Have a nice day!
My personality type INTJ.
How does that relate to who i am? Im confident and have a vivid imagination. I am a person that feels the need to understand why something is the way it it. Personally, professionally and even in relationships. In a relationship i feel that is important because it helps me identify if i need to change or how to handle relationships basically. My personality type pertaining to relationships it states An INTJ is likely to have a “checklist” in their mind long before they actually start thinking about a relationship. It is also likely that “he/she must be rational” will be at the top of their list of criteria—and this is exactly what usually holds the INTJ back, especially if they are male. I consider myself very rational and understanding. Why is all this relevant? This part is 100% true and i never understood myself until reading this. So if you are interested be aware its not a bad thing but it takes two people for a relationship to work and a good woman would help me balance ---->INTJs are uncomfortable expressing their feelings or trying to understand the emotions of other people. They also have a tendency to always trust their knowledge and understanding. Not surprisingly, INTJs can sometimes inadvertently hurt other people, especially during the dating phase and even later in the relationship. Sorry to write so much but it explains who i am. Who are you and would you like to know more?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something comfortable neat and fun.