So I'll start off by saying that I like my privacy and will forward a pic. All you have to do is ask. Ok so I guess I'll tell you a little about me. I moved back to Cali about a year ago after spending four years in Texas. I am currently a waitress and a student. I plan to finish my degree in bio engineering. I hope to be completed by 30. I am also a mom of a wonder 6 yr old boy. I also have to dogs. I have spent a lot of time thinking about what it is I want out of a relationship. Yes i said relationship so don't think I'm a hit it and quit it kind of girl. like i said, I'm looking for someone who's real. I'd love a guy who shares the same interest I do. I don't have cable cause I'd rather be on my XBOX. I love playing cod and I spend a lot of time doing so. I wouldn't want a guy who is like ( what's cod?) lol. I like to smoke and I do drink but no like a fish. I've been called a fish outta water my whole life. I love to surf, and swim, and go river rafting, really anything to do with water lol. I would love to live more coastal but i still find myself down at the beach quite often. I'll go down to the beach for a walk during the sunset anytime or pick up lunch to have a picnic on the beach just cause its a nice day. I love having bond fires or going fishing of the piers. I love sports like football, soccer, hockey, i hate baseball lol. It's ok just really slow. I like working on my car or doing house improvements. I'm very good with my hands. my grandfather was a contractor so i was taught if you want something done do it yourself. I am planning to paint my car my self here in about three weeks. My last project was rewiring my car stereo. I kept blowing fuses so I rewired everything and its sounding much better. :) I like to workout and I do watch my weight so plz be the same in that respect. Obviously my son is a huge part of my life. With kids it's always this birthday party and that class to go to, and I want this or that, hoildays, and just taking a bath and getting ready for school. I cherish every second with my son, good or bad. So if you don't like children your not for me. My son Is a very lovable fun loving kid. He makes me laugh all day. :) I love my job, until Im at work, lol. no but really I think being a waitress is so much fun plus it keeps me in shape. I couldn't have a job were I sit on my ass all day. Can you say boring!!!!! I love people. I love hanging out with my family and friends. I don't like much main stream media crap. most actors I couldn't tell you their names but if you asked me something like who name all the presidents or how many cup are in a gallon I'd be able to tell you. I like education and learning. I read more text books than fashion magazines but i still care about my looks. I like taking dance or yoga classes. Maybe a painting class. idk just something fun and creative. I really like photography and music and play's and going to comedy shows. I don't really like going to the movies in the theater only the drive-in. I know that is so old fashion but I like old fashion, just like my guy's. :) I am out going and would love to travel the world but tell i win the lottery I mainly enjoy things like amusement parks, and hiking, and bbqing, and playing horse shoe's or washers. Hanging out having a drink and playing some pool. I just like real stuff like taking a nap on a cloudy weekend afternoon, or taking a long bubble bath in candle light. I don't have any tattoo's and as long as your not covered from head to toe we're good. I don't want any jail birds either. If your a criminal i wont like you and your wasting your time. I'm out going but I don't wanta go sky diving or bungy jumping. Oh and i like to go fishing and hiking and go out into the wilderness but I don't like sleeping in tents. I get pretty cranky when I don't get a good night sleep. Im not a club type of girl either. I can't stand house or techno and i never meet anyone decent at clubs anyways so I usually keep it to sports bars. Please have a job and a car and atleast take care of yourself financially. I'm hard working and independent and would want nothing less in return. Please like video games and the beach. I spend a lot of time doing both these things. You don't have to have your own kids but at least like the fact that I have a child and if it does bother you at all don't reply. As a smoker, it is very annoying to date someone who isn't or cares that I do so if your a non- smoker or straight edged please don't reply. If you are a cute, family oriented nice guy who loves kids and is open minded with a charming personality please msg me. Don't be shy even if it's just to say hi or something that's ok to.