I am originally from South America but have lived in California since I was 18 years old. I am a confident, assertive, honest, fun and loving person. I try to have a sense of humor even during difficult situations. I do my best to balance my personal and professional life to also be able to share my time and attention with that special person. I am happy with my life but I definitely know it could be enhanced if I can share it with the "right" man. I care more about who I am with than the actual activity. It's easy for me to have fun provided I am with someone I can connect with.
I am looking for a man that is honest, genuine, smart, balanced, affectionate, thoughtful, with a big heart, reliable and has learned from past relationships what works and does not work for him. It is also important for us to feel that physical and emotional connection (chemistry), being able to laugh together and share similar values. I am interested in someone that is "emotionally available" and "emotionally mature" and that is open to a potential meaningful relationship if dating were to take us into that direction.
Please contact me only if you have pictures posted. I have mine so it is only fair :-)
Best luck in your search!
P.S. I have a 13 year old son that I adore. He is a wonderful and fun kid! He is already playing in golf tournaments and loves to play basketball and stay active. I have an amicable relationship with my ex-husband and he is a great Dad to my son......so no drama there :-)
I hesitated about adding the following because I don't know if it will make a difference but here we go:
"If dating is your favorite hobby along the lines of when we were in our 20s and you are 40+ attempting to feel like a playboy, nothing wrong with that but you are not for me".
"I am not on this site because I enjoy "being out there" and want to see how many messages I can receive. I am on this site because I look forward to having a meaningful relationship. I can care less if I receive tons of messages or 1. If I am lucky enough to receive the one from the right person, that is what truly matters".
"If you are unreliable and flaky, please don't contact me. I understand unexpected things can come up in our busy lives but the basic courtesy of a quick phone call or a text shows respect and consideration and it means a lot to me".
Trying to keep the list short.......LOL