I don't think it even matters what I write on here. I'm from So Cal and I am pretty laid back unless I'm stuck on the 91.
I deal with problems all day and I'm not looking to date a problem. It you date girls that look through your phone or crash into your truck because you aren't where you are supposed to be I will bore you to death. I don't take 13 selfies and hour and I don't spend my weekends drunk and yelling at my date. I get it some men are totally like that but I try to avoid drama as much as possible .
I notice men like a certain type of woman and have no problem being specific in what they want and don't want in physical appearance. I decided to do the same. I like clean cut , conservative guys ( cops, military, law) not that you have to have that as a job but I'm not into the thug look.
I have self esteem and I am mentally healthy so I don't respond well to the " I'll be a jerk because girls like that ".
I think I wrote the mandatory amount of words . Any questions just ask
Just really depends on how things go. I think there is a first date to see if two people get along in real life which would be something simple. Then, if things go well there is a the "real" first date where you spend time with that person.