Buttrflye: She's a girl and she's on fire
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Alameda, California
31 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Scorpio
Buttrflye wants to date but nothing serious.
Bachelors Degree

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Red Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year
Pets No Pets  

About Me
My name is Ashlee, and I'm a small-town girl that was transplanted to the Bay Area for my job. I'm from a town on the Central Coast called Arroyo Grande.

I am a CSU Chico Alumni. I'll let you make your own assumptions ;)
While going to school there, I had an amazing opportunity to study abroad in New Zealand. It was pretty much the best time of my life. So far :))

I've only lived in the Bay Area for about three years now, so I've still got a lot of exploring to do. My favorite activities so far: #1 is definitely going to Giants games; visiting Muir Woods, breakfast/brunch at the Cliff House, wine tasting in wine country, checking out various neighborhoods in the City that I haven't been to yet; and everything in between. I am pretty adventurous and am game for just about anything.

I am an optimist and like to try to always look at the bright side of things no matter what.

I thrive on going to new places. Doesn't matter where-- whether it's checking out surrounding cities/towns here in the Bay Area that I haven't been to, or further away. A co-worker recently observed that I was a "wanderer". I couldn't agree with her more! I am happiest when I am in a new place.

I wear a uniform for my job. Is that a turn-on? ;)

I LOVE living in Alameda. I feel like it is a hidden "gem" of the Bay Area. It has a charm of it's own, with tree-lined streets and Victorian houses. Ever been? You should check it out.

I have an old soul, and was recently told that I am "wise beyond my years."

I have a great relationship with my parents, and my Mom is my best friend.

Some of my favorite things:
~Nice people.
~Laughing 'till I cry {or snort!}
~Getting 8 hours of sleep.
~Dogs. I want one SO badly. I think I have "dog envy" of people who do have them.
~Red wine
~Chivalrous Manners

And I'll get this out of the way, so that you can decide if you are someone who I would consider "my type" or not :)

The man that I am looking for:

It seems to me, as a general observation of the Bay Area; there aren't very many "manly" men. I'm looking for someone who I feel is going to protect me. (Which, I'll admit-- may be difficult, since I am independent and use to taking care of myself.)

I want a guy who can fix things, knows how to change a tire/oil... you know, the standard things that a man SHOULD know how to do.
I don't want to have to show you how to use a cordless drill. You should also not be afraid to help with the dishes and vacuum ;) OH, and my knives could REALLY use a good sharpening!
If you own ANY kind of skinny jeans... it's DEFINITELY not going to work out!

I am highly attracted to men who can build things (construction and the like).

Call me old fashioned, but I guess I'm looking for a real man. Not a Sissy-La-La. Someone who can make me laugh like no one else. Someone who will treat me like a lady, even when there are times where I can be "one of the guys". (I'm versatile :)

I have never felt like I "needed" to have someone else in my life to make me happy. But I'm to the point now that I think it would be great to have someone by my side for the adventures that life throws at me; and see what happens from there :))

I’m really good at:

Baking lemon cookies
Making people laugh
Being a Giants fan :))
Taking showers
Driving long distances
Being a good friend (I've been in 5 weddings and have another one to be in... that's a lot of bridesmaid's dresses!)

On a typical Friday night I am:
Either at a Giants game, a concert, driving out of town to visit friends, or headed to the Central Coast for some R&R at my parent's house. Although occasionally, laying low at home watching Netflix with a yummy glass of red wine sounds like the best answer to a long exhausting week at work.

First Date
Well, the first time I meet someone from here will not be a "date". It's more of a meeting to see if there is any connection or chemistry.

Let's save the date for the second meet-up :))

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