Just ask ....... I've recently been told I'm intimidating because of the fact that I'll try just about anything ie tearing up my kitchen, working on my car/bike and chatting it up about sports. Here's my realization I want to partner who will do things with me... I don't need someone to Caudel me because I'm a woman or who thinks I am not capable of getting things done.
That being said I'm an open book just looking for someone who makes me smile....I am looking for a friend and life-partner. So a little bit about me, my family is absolutely the most important thing to me although they live three hours away I make it a point to see them on a regular basis. In my spare time you can normally find me out running around with the dog, out at a concert(yes I am more partial to alternative and rock) I recently picked up riding a motorcycle...this has now become my new found love. I make it a point every year to do something I haven't done in previous years this year .......... will see what comes next
Truth be told in a relationship I want someone that makes me smile all the time, good bad or indifferent I'm very old-fashioned and love my men to be a real man. I'm looking for someone who knows that communication is the key to making a relationship work(easier said then done but when you find the right mix it can be effortless).I'm not perfect ... But I am honest in what I want and working on the how I feel .... I want a relationship based on friendship but I don't want someone who doesn't see that putting in the time and truly getting to know someone is how true relationships are formed. I don't think that can be done if always looking for the next best thing. If your the type of guy that is only looking for physical with no depth then we so won't work ... Not saying chemistry isn't supper important it is !! but looks fade over time if you truly enjoy someone's company that will never change, unless I'm unable to remember my own name then we might have a problem...hopefully that makes sense.
My mom and dad have been married for 37 yrs and counting, in my family out of 12 aunts and uncles only one has been divorced.....
I have to be honest and say that I'm really past the BS that goes along with dating I'm looking for someone who is honest and open and really knows what they want out of a relationship. I don't want someone who's hung up on old relationships or doesn't know what they really want out of life truth is if you dont have someone who loves you unconditionally to enjoy the small things what do you really have? I'm looking for what everyone is looking for that click that just seems seamless like you've known each other forever its a lofty to dream but i have it. Really i don't think its so far fetch.....…. It's just really hard to come by. So when you find what it is you're looking for you'll know and I'm not one to sit back and just let it pass me by ...
This last year has been a crazy one life has dealt some major changes and truthfully couldn't be more grateful, I'm currently reinventing myself and my own truths. I see things so much more in the moment and grow as a person every single day. I am soooo blessed!!!
I believe everything happens for a reason even the crappy stuff there is always a favorable outcome in everything you just have to change your perspective !!! you never know what tomorrow will brings
I do have to say I'm very happy with were I'm at and What I've achieved ;)..... My five year goal is to own a working farm and have two rentals ..
btw if you have kids great for you but i dont want to date someone who has them.. Doesn't make me bad just truthful