Thanks for stopping by!
A couple disclaimers:
-I have seen the MTV show Catfish- and have learned a lot! Keep that in mind before you email! LOL There have been guys I have chatted with who has either NOT been who they claim to be or say one thing and do another. Please don't be that guy!
-I heard a comedian once say the difference between men & women that date online is this: a man hopes she looks like her pictures-a woman hopes he doesn't murder her! :o) Guys-I think it's safe to say women think the pics are important too-but would love to have someone we can trust and take us for who we are!
-I have dated some nice guys that were not wanting anything long term. If that is you-I genuinely wish you luck on your search. I have simply hit a point where I simply want a bit more.
That being said....
Let's be real- If your in your late 30's to mid/late 40's and your on POF (or any other dating site!)-you're likely as confused as I am! Dating today is way different than it was 20 or so years ago! Many of us have lived the life and experienced "stuff". I think that's kinda normal! And our priorities in life have likely changed a lot....
What am I looking for? Well....Prince Charming is overrated. I would have to say an HONEST man would be refreshing! Someone who values friendship and family. Knows the meaning of loyalty and commitment. Someone who isn't afraid to hold hands in public as well as in private. Someone who can be a gentleman one minute and silly the next. I have been told I have a great sense of humor. Laughter-in my opinion- is important in life! Someone who is versatile-can go to a comedy club one night-and watch a sad movie the next. Someone who doesn't mind going out or staying in. And most importantly- someone who wants to invest time in knowing me. I have loads of Facebook friends and want more than a phone/text buddy-though that's a good start!
Some fun facts about me:
~I have two great sons- one on his own and one at home that I have full custody of. Not wanting to actually have any more kids of my own but I’m totally ok if I meet someone that has his own kids.
~I may not look like it but I do have a couple tasteful tatts-see the pics.
~I really don't mind the bar scene-but I am not a huge drinker-not a problem just a personal choice.
~I am very eclectic in many ways-music, movies and TV. Not a big country fan-sorry! Really like the newer music and still enjoy my 80’s hairbands!! I enjoy action adventure flicks-maybe a little SciFi. I hate to cry so sappy movies are for home viewing -alone-if ever!! This is not saying I don't appreciate a good romance movie however! Love the Walking Dead, The Voice, Supernatural.....Love to be creeped out by some movies but love to laugh so hard my sides hurt with others.
~I have a long bucket list-I do not plan to sit and grow old gracefully! Would enjoy a partner in life that can embrace some adventure!
Again-thanks for stopping by! I hope you find what you're looking for. If it might be me-drop me a line!