I opened this account a while ago... but have not been very good with my logging on & follow-thru, it doesn't help that POF deletes your messages after a few weeks. I'm at a good place (I think) in my life, to try meeting someone.... or as ready as I am going to be.
I have as much desire to write a long novel as you desire to read one... So here we go, I have spent most of my life in a uniform & combat boots but own MANY pairs of heels and love everything about being a woman. I want a man who is everything a good man should be and one who isn't afraid to give the best of himself to the woman he loves... because I plan to give the best of myself to the man I love. I am a strong, independent woman and am not looking for a free ride on anyone's back, nor am I looking to give anyone a free ride. I've worked hard for all I have (Yes; I have my own car. Yes; I have my own place. Yes; I have my own money and yes I worked hard to get it all). I can financially support myself and my family but I also love the way it feels to be wrapped in my lovers arms and held through the night, that is something no amount of money can buy. My dream would be to have a lover who is also my best friend... but also ride or die partners who will stand by and support each other, come what may.
My life up until now has not been lacking in dull moments. So while I know I am not 70... I also know that I prefer to spend nice relaxing nights at home over going to the clubs. Been there done that, enough for three lifetimes... but still enjoy, putting on my heels and a sexy dress, every once in awhile. I have allot of old school typical Southern Girl values instilled in my head. So basically I'm that kind of woman you want to meet AFTER you have gotten all the playing (chasing every woman in sight) out of your system. Keep it classy... classy doesn't mean not sexy, a real woman can be both and she knows exactly when to play which part ;) Just saying...
Not quite 37, maybe next year....
**And I can't see the people who click, they want to meet me. You are going to have to write me. IF I do not write back, it may be a more gentle way of saying it wouldn't work out or that I honestly haven't seen your message.
Depends on the connection.... I am not trying to waste anyone's time and certainly don't want to waste my time. Let's skip the pen-pal part, meet face to face and see if there is any chemistry. Get the typical dinner and a walk, out of the way, so we can hurry up and get to the "good stuff"... the Netflix marathon with some cuddling... lol nothing beats the movie marathon cuddling ;) BUT there is no chance in getting to that point if we can't establish whether or not there is chemistry and that can only be done face to face. So sorry you power pen-pallers, I am not looking for a texting buddy. In truth I actually hate the phone, so lets take it back to the old school way and actually spend some face to face time :)