I have spent most of my life in combat boots but own MANY pairs of heels and love everything about being a woman. I expect the man I end up with to be a MAN and be the best he can be, because I plan to give the best of me to him..... I am a very independent woman and am not looking for a free ride on anyone's back, nor am I looking to give anyone a free ride, I've worked hard for all I have. I can financially support myself and my family but I still love the way it feels to be wrapped in my lovers arms and held through the night, that is something no amount of money can buy. My dream would be to have my lover who is also my best friend.
My life up until now has not been lacking in dull moments. So while I know I am not 70... I also know that I prefer to spend nice relaxing nights at home over going to the clubs. Been there done that, enough for three lifetimes. I'm that kind of woman you want to meet AFTER you have gotten all the playing (chasing every woman in sight) out of your system. I will not lie I seem to get along best with military personnel (past or present).... It is what I know best and that is a connection I need or at least someone who is understanding of it. It does not means I rule out everyone else.
I do not come here often so be patient if I am slow to respond. I acknowledge every message so if you do not see a response, I have not read it yet.. :) and YES I do send out messages to some people who have great profiles... It isn't a marriage proposal lol Its called being friendly. To all of you men who hit you want to meet me... just write, otherwise I never see who you are, I only see the number rising :) I am down to earth and friendly and NO, I will not ignore any messages. I think if someone takes the time to write you, the least you can do is acknowledge it. It's not always easy putting yourself out there.
& IF I've written you before and do not remember.... calm down. I am not stalking you, believe it or not its hard to remember who all you've interacted with.
Where did people go for first dates, back in the day, before Starbucks existed??? Let's do that.... I actually may be the only person alive who doesn't drink coffee.