i have a great life, have financial security, I do not have to work, live directly on the ocean, have the love and respect of my children and even my best ex-wife, have lots of good, caring, loving friends throughout the country. The only thing missing from my life is a soul mate. I know that no one can make me happy, or complete, however, I am looking to enhance my life with a life mate, a best friend and lover, someone who appreciates intimacy, loves to laugh, who wants to play and travel. I carry a medalion with me that says, “ to thine own self be true”. I try to live by that. Although, I am a lawyer, I am an honest person, and only lie about my age, which truly is 66. I am open minded, caring, sensitive, affectionate, outgoing, compassionate, and try to practice the Golden Rule in all my affairs. As can be seen from my picture, I am not good looking. Been accused of being, cute, adorable and huggable. However, the smile is genuine, as I am truly happy. I have a healthy, positive outlook on life, have a great sense of humor, with the most unique and infectious laugh. Been told that life with me is a lot of fun and interesting. My life mate need not have the same interests as me, as I would respect her individuality and independence, and I would hope to learn and broaden my horizons. I am well trained, i work the toilet seat, do not hog the remote control, and know when an appropiate " yes dear" is in order. i am looking for a woman who can appreciate an honest, caring man with intregrity who treats his best friend and lover, with respect, and consideration.