:) You may find that attractive and fun, you may not. I also don't think I can tell you exactly what I look for in a man. Friends say I seem to only like short, thin men... but I've dated tall men too. Ha! We all know that looks are not what it's ultimately all about. The chemistry makes the match because we're all different and I believe that certain people balance each other out. We'll find out when we talk.
I can be a bit goofy. Life is for enjoying. Some of my traits are that I'm organized, nice, independent, caring, dependable, stubborn, silly, and very sexy. Good combinations? I don't know. You be the judge.
I don't want a fling. I don't want a penpal or chat buddy in a different city. Let's go do things, get to know each other in person, and go from there.
The man I like is respectful, intelligent, attractive, and interesting. He will put on a suit and take me out in style one day and wear jeans and hike at Red Rock another. He wants to take me out, enjoys vacations and wants to show me off to everyone (because I'm so awesome!). Are you him?
A first date is for meeting; to see the real person and know if you feel chemistry and will get along.
It's all about talking, so any quiet place to talk would work.
Although I want a serious relationship in the end, you need to start out getting to know someone... so, let's get to square one, meeting.