I am NOT looking for a hook up!! I repeat, I am NOT looking for a hook up!! Please, if you're only looking for a little play time, don't bother asking or even pretend you're not with me, I'll figure it out real fast because I'm not some silly little girl who is so desperate for affection that she'll take anything you give her.
Okay, quick summary for those who choose not to read my profile. I am real, you should be too. I'm looking for a relationship, not a hookup, not a friend-with-benefits, a real boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Have a job, I'm not looking for a freeloader. Have a car, I'm not interested in driving you around or always being the one to drive to you. I don't chase men, if you're interested in me, keep the conversation going or I'm not going to send a bunch of messages trying to get your attention. I will simply delete your messages and move on. You might be my perfect match, but I will not stress over why you aren't replying, I am worthy of gaining your attention after I send one reply, not being sent on a chase!!
Be respectful enough to have at least read the above paragraph!! And now, read the entire profile if you choose. :-)
**Fair warning, I do have a lot written in my profile, but please know that it's worth taking the time to read so we won't waste each others time. I'm seriously looking for someone to add to my life, you should be too. I take the time to read every word of your profile as well because of that.**
Well lets see....I am a very relaxed person in general. I don't like drama. I just like to have fun and hang out with great people most of the time.
One thing I'm REALLY guy big on is: respect! I'm always respectful of others and I expect the same in return! Please understand this and don't take it lightly, I truly mean it.
I guess I need to add this to the respect part now since it seems to keep coming up. I understand that by nature we are all fairly sexual beings and since we are all single, there is bound to be sexual tension out there. However, please understand that I am NOT looking to "hook-up" with someone just because we find each other mutually attractive. The second you start talking to me about sexual stuff, before I even get a chance to meet you and get to know you, I'm not likely to reply back. No, I am not "prude" or whatever you might think, because once I'm in a relationship with you I will rock your world better than any woman has ever done before. Until then I am simply trying to make REAL connections with REAL people. I just find that once you throw sex into it, the chance of a REAL relationship developing seems to decline greatly and I'm not looking for superficial stuff at this point in my life.
Please be local!! I'm not a fan of long distance that keeps us from seeing each other regularly. Yeah, we both have separate lives, but I don't want to be a "weekend girlfriend" where we can only hang out together on our days off. It makes it really hard to create a solid relationship. I think It's perfectly normal to see each other in the middle of the week and do something together, even if it's just watching TV or a movie at home alone with each other. Not to be rude, but if you do not have your own car and live more than a few miles away from me, don't bother talking to me. I drive, but I don't want to drive you around all the time.
If you click that you want to meet me, or if you add me as a favorite, write me PLEASE. Don't be shy, I don't bite.
I feel I should add this, I do NOT chase guys! If you want to talk to me, do so. If I give you my number and we start sending texts or talk on the phone, keep it up. I don't feel that I should need to keep saying "hi" first, it makes me feel like I'm somehow bothering you or that you're just being nice and don't really want to keep taking to me. Bottom line, keep after me and I'll make it worth your time! :-)
I've FINALLY graduated with two bachelor's degrees in Public Communication and Interdisciplinary Studies. I'm also currently entertaining the thought of going to Graduate School, I figure I should be ambitious, especially with the job market the way it is right now. :-)
Oh yeah and I enjoy candle-lit dinners, long walks on the beach, and puppies. LOL Yes, I know I'm kind of a dork, but I think I can pass it off....right? :-P
On a first date I'd really like to to be as relaxed and comfortable as possible. I've found that brunch or lunch is fairly non-threatening and quite enjoyable for both parties. If things work out then you still have the rest of the day to do other things (like one of those walks on the beach LOL), and if they don't, well you can still go about the rest of your day not feeling as if you've wasted too much time.