*PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE SENDING ME A MESSAGE* I take the time to read yours, so have the respect to read mine! I'm aware that it's easier to look at pictures and shoot off a quick message, but there's a reason why the "About Me" section exists. I really can't believe that I have to add this at my age. Stay classy gentlemen!!
It seems like P.O.F. is pretty ghostly lately. I'm not sure why I still have a profile up to be honest....
I'm sweet, fun loving, thoughtful, loyal to a fault, and passionate about finding my perfect mate. You don't have to be a perfect man though, because I have never claimed to be perfect myself, just be perfect for me and I'll be perfect for you! (yikes I used the word "perfect" a lot).
I do know what I'm looking for (as I wrote about below) and I don't like to waste time, but it seems like I might not be able to actually find what I really want, so change my mind and show me a good time!!
I'm here to possibly find a long term relationship with someone who is ready to commit to me as much as I'm willing to commit to them and hopefully eventually lead to marriage and kids.
Yes, I did say "kids" above. This is high on my list of things I'd like to accomplish some day. I love kids and they tend to love me too, but I don't have any, yet. I'm okay if you already have some, but I'd love some of my own as well.
To be clear, I do not and will not "hook up" with anyone. I'm not a prude, but I'm well past the point of dating for fun....meaning, I'm looking for something real, long term, committed, and not a fling.
If you aren't ready for the possibility of getting in to a committed relationship, please, move on to the next person. I've had my fair share of commitment-phobes and I'm over the games that they play.
Do I really have to say this?! If you doing have a job, car, or place of your own (at least somewhere with privacy)....you are wasting both our time. I have a source of income, a car of my own, and my living situation is easy to accommodate guests (the latter is NOT an invitation to come over).
If you have "Casual dating/No commitment" listed on your profile, you're not likely to get a reply from me....
I don't understand why you guys ALWAYS seem to bring up sex so fast. I understand we're all single adults who are sexual beings, but PLEASE keep it in your pants!! Yes, I have sex, no, I'm NOT going to jump in bed with you on the first or even third or fourth date. I want to get to know you for who you are, just as I'd like you to know me for me. I'm not interested in seeing you naked that fast!!
It seems like even with all that I've written above, you guys seem to only want to play games. I'm over it. If you're NOT looking for what I've discussed above, please, leave me alone. I'd rather be single and alone than to have games played, I simply don't have time for it. Thank you for respecting that.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
On a first date I'd really like to to be as relaxed and comfortable as possible. I've found that brunch or lunch is fairly non-threatening and quite enjoyable for both parties. If things work out then you still have the rest of the day to do other things (like one of those walks on the beach LOL), and if they don't, well you can still go about the rest of your day not feeling as if you've wasted too much time on a "bad date," but you might have gained a new friend though!