OK first of all I do date men with children but would prefer someone who didn't have any. I'm tired of all the drama with the exes! I don't have any children but I would maybe like to have one in the future...still undecided! Also, what is with all these Abq men that don't want to work?! I'm not asking for you to work every day of the week but if you can't even do your 40hrs and you are broke all the time....HUGE turn off so keep it moving!! Seriously!! I know what I want and what I dont want!! So if I dont sound too much of a B**** and you have a job....Send me a message ;) Have a good day!!