If your looking at this then we already have 1 thing in common...we are looking for someone out there...now what your looking for and what i'm lookin for might be a little different but we are looking for someone....I'm looking for someone i can talk to ....do fun things with....just laugh...be spontaneous.....try new things....see where things go...i beleive in fate and destiny and all that mooshy stuff..but i also beleive that you have to except people for who they are....you will never find a perfect person. You don't go into a relationship and try to change someone or its just a losing battle from the beginning....but.....you CAN change in a relationship...and not even know it..for the better.....but it doesn't mean someone is trying to change you ..just means your becoming a better person with that person....that your growing...acually living life....I am very outgoing and love to get out the house but also love to cuddle up in the house...i like to cook and do find myself cleaning if i'm very nervous or frustrated....The beach is my second home and i also love playing pool, bowling, putt putt..concerts...walks..riding bycicles...skating...hikes..shopping..movies...music..and little things like that...I love sports but i dont' obsess my life over sports...i'll watch the game but i won't be mad for weeks after my team loses...lol..i love my family..we arn't as close as i would like us to be right now but we all love eachother. Everything happens for a reason i think...good and bad..I don't like games and i don't like drama or someone that isn't totally out of a relationship before they try to get into another relationship....if you think you still might have feelings for ur x then i'm not the guy for you....I have fell for women before when she was separtated and come to find out she was still very much apart of her x's life ...just very hurtful and left me in a lot pain and heartache....i don't wanna go through that ever again if i can prevent it...I am single and would love to meet someone single too. If you have kids that is completly fine with me because i love kids....and if you're part of your x's life for that reason then that is completly understandable and great......I think a child should have both partents in there life...and this is coming from someone that doesn't know there father... I really hope to meet someone that can grow into something deep and fulfilling.....its a search i think everyone secretly has is to find your soulmate and i don't know how well this website is but i'm going to try it.