I do (still have hope that is!) I'm a military brat, educator, and former big-city girl. I have now been 'settled' in San Diego for 6 years with no plans on moving (although I still get the itch every four years or so). I've been an elementary school teacher for 11 years now, 5 years in Chicago and 6 here in SD. For me, moving to San Diego from Chicago was like taking it down about 10 notches...from a huge urban metropolis to a small laid back beach town.
Music seems to be a big line drawer, so here it goes....I listen to hip hop/r&b/some rap/pop. Let's see how that weeds out people.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something chill where we can talk and get to know each other...no pressure for either of us. Starting off with a coffee or gelato would be wise before you spend money on a nice dinner for our 2nd date ;)