I'm funny, talkative, silly, sometimes moody, I'm good at almost anything put my mind to, I like to paint, sing, listen to music, love going to museums, aquariums, meeting new people, laughing, cooking, learning. I am working on growing as an individual, and shrinking as well, expanding my horizons. I hate being told that I can't do something. I love surprises. Colorful people, eccentrics, intellectual types, artistic, lovers and fighters. I love people. just please don't be a pushover, I need someone who is assertive, confident.. a go getter.. there isnothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants and lets nothing stand in the way of him getting it. I should make it clear that I am not looking for a hook-up. Anything devoid of human emotion does not appeal to me. However, I am not looking for an instant relationship either. Friendship comes first. I will not respond if you ask me to meet up, hook up and probably will not read your message if you don't have a photo.