Easygoing girl here in general but not all the time. I do have a feisty side to me when it's needed. If you don't like feisty women press "click" to the next chick... On the same note I like a man with a backbone. Backbone does not = nasty attitude... that's a (sorry I cannot post those words here). Everyone on here is not a nice person or there would not be any locks on your doors and prison wouldn't exist. I can't tell who you really are and you can't tell who I am really. So I will not be using the words kind, sweet, caring, loyal, honest, saint, pleasing, sexy, dominant, wicked, submissive, doormat willing... those things need time to see if they exist in a person - reality. I have an open mind to most things but have my own standards on what I like or don't like also. Like everyone else does.
By myself I like reading, writing, drawing, painting, music (different types). I also like camping, hiking, dancing (dance partner welcomed), martial arts (yes I can what you are thinking now, and I'm not a small girl, and yes I will if I have too - why take it for so many years - discipline - I don't think so), snorkeling, photography...
I have an Accounting, business and Real Estate background. I don't like constant drilling about my work. Neither do I like one only talking about theirs without other things going on in different areas of life. You either can pay all your bills or not, regardless of your fantastic or lacking status. What a bore with hearing major material boasting or the broke / cheap mans phrase, "I'm not a wealthy man". Don't try to peek in my purse / wallet either (you might not like what you see).
I like to talk and I like to listen too. I have always been interested and open to different cultures and places. So, don't be surprised or shocked if I contact you and you are of a different race than I. Take it as a compliment for the moment for which it came. I'm perfectly aware that people have preferences -we all do even if you try to claim you don't. There are good looking men in all races and mixed up ones too - I don't limit myself, okay if you do. You also will make yourself look culturally ignorant in my eyes. I like to go out and explore different places and hang around the house relaxing too. I don't like to do one more than the other, I love both.
Doing athletic outings is great. Especially if it is something that I am good at, bring it on. If I suck at it, I will cheat... That's fun also. I also enjoy the slow pace of a museum and absorbing the information involved.
I do not email back and forth (for a long time) or text back and forth (don't like that). Phone conversation(s) and a meet and greet if agreed upon is a preference. This can mean a real date also which I prefer - old school. My pictures represents me today. . What you see is what you will meet. Not a worry in the misrepresentation area (I look like my photos--height, weight, and age). You should too (or put up new ones--selfies). Why do people shave years off their age? It just makes you look OLD for your new trying to make yourself feel better age. You will just represent an old looking younger person, people can tell. They just won't say anything if they find you attractive anyway. But knock yourself out with the lie. We go by looks first... at least by most of us. By the way the aging will not stop so I have heard, did I see a tear. The baby woman will not make you look younger either (I think you are called dirty old man). She's the one that looks young (hopefully) and she is. Same for cougars unless they look like Halle Berry, Demi Moore, Vanessa Williams, Brooke Shields, Sofia Vergara, Michelle Pfeiffer, Raquel Welch, etc. Have to get the men in too I don't hate: Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Denzel Washington, Dylan McDermott, Ralph Macchio, Johnny Depp, Rob Lowe, etc (just used Hollywood that everyone knows somehow).
If you write me with a "Hi". I will answer with a "Hi"(probable not) . Nice and polite but it goes no were. Put more meaningful words on that hook to why you have contacted. I do with initial first contacts. That is what meeting someone new is all about. Your pictures alone will do nothing. I am a thinking learning creature and I don't care if you don't care - little girls have many years to adapt, boys. Sorry guys I know pictures alone does it for you, laughing out loud. See pics there is a pulse. See pics with a lot of... wow your fingers know how to type. "Hi beautiful". See you got out two words from the original "Hi". Look, the brain can work and you don't care if you are wasting your time typing to someone who may not answer back. It was worth it, progress in my just for fun list of women (I think you may need another sheet of paper - just saying...make that two). I guess we women can't stop showing our...
I'm looking more for a good friendship (not the friend zone or I wouldn't be here). That has more meaning and weight to me than your outer shell in the long run but outer shell does count (just like with you men). Yep, I definitely like easy on the eyes. Don't you, you piece of man meat? What... did I say something wrong? If something more happens then great (you men are familiar with this saying - so boomerang). I love that I have the choice to feel like that too. Nothing serious until I feel something serious and your feelings don't count, laughing out loud again. Don't get upset I'm just a wo-MAN. You know how we think behind all the... women also keep a fun list of men. You may be happy or not to be on it. But remember confident women will take skills into account big time, they just won't tell you. Yes... but no honey, I really do like you. Oops... cross out on the list, sorry. Hint: go for the needy ones, they have the long lists.
It also doesn't hurt if you have that sexy man walk in your step (no sagging pants here, yuk!). By the way can anyone tell me why on earth would someone think sagging pants is sexy / cool? Also why old t-shirts and short are also? You men like sexy, well we women like sexy too. Remember looks count on our side too. You men just keep missing when we women do the wide eyed owl look at you with our heads turned totally backwards gazing straight at you. Who? Who?...are you handsome and is there a six-pack under there? But you never shut up about the Linda Blair (The Exorcist) look from the needy woman. Why is that? Is it the dirty talk and out of this world body flexibility?
I can be sarcastic as I want here it's just a longggg profile page and it's mine not yours ( I said I was easy going ) and I like humor and banter. People are different in the flesh, especially with 15 year old pics posted. One serious list requirement, I would want you to have...a belief in God because I do. I like the spiritual connection with another believer.
Now you still don't know who I am and I you. That has to be learned. Thanks for reading my bull... Take care