I love the outdoors, anything to do with water, and education. I like reading, writing, drawing, painting, music (different types). I also like camping, hiking, dancing (dance partner welcomed), martial arts to name some. I am Spiritual, which means I believe in God. I’m open to different races/cultures, you be too (my family is noticeably mixed with the lovely differences - I'm Black, foreign but raised here). My kids are in Universities and last half of high school preparing for University. For those who are wondering about age range. Certainly not pushing my kids or family here. It is just an “invisible” part of me that would probable not be known if not told. Someone and them most likely will not ever meet if nothing ever became serious. I take family introductions seriously and cautiously on both sides. I am family oriented to the core. They are good decent people, because I raised them as I was raised. Therefore, I only associate with decent men (I'm picky here as I should be). I'm not a fast mover (except to talk on phone rather than emailing back and forth) so I have the time to wait, observe and see (kind of like any investment in life). I invest in a very good long term friendship, the payoff / return is at an unbelievable high return (Apple, Microsoft... my long term friendships). Hey... if debt free is something that turns you on, give me your masculine sexy wink. I’ll give you my feminine girly-girl one back. Sounds boring, who cares grouchy ;)
I have an Accounting, business and Real Estate background. My hours vary but I can flex my time. Entrepreneurs are very welcomed, I have the mindset/experience. I seem to bond better with a person whom is higher educated (Bachelors degree - higher - although there are exceptions) and has been in a serious long term relationship at some point within their life. I can be sarcastic, very affectionate (hugs, kisses, holding hands, playing with your face or hair), annoyingly playful (have funny bone will tickle) and just plain silly (laughter) if I have chemistry/"that spark" with someone. I can stay in or go out of the home on adventures, doesn't matter with good company. I like both, you should too.
Openness is a positive with me in any or all issues. Someone too guarded will miss out on life and me (I will miss out on them). Wanted: upbeat, positive personalities... please. Not wanted: the angry, bitter, resentful or mean spirited ones. I am open to different personalities, that is what makes life interesting (except bad boys and women / people haters - never have never will, and any other negatives I become aware of). Regarding age, someone around my general age with a comparable appearance to my own (younger 40's or few years older). Remember we all have Government Identifications that shows the day we were born on. Keep that in mind when establishing a new relationship (the ideology of lies hurts people’s trust issues and brings about unstable relationships – how can it not?). I always had dogs but I loathe sleeping with them and humanizing them. They are this woman’s best animal friend only.
Someone who has a one to a three sentence profile with a lot of adjectives listed is probably not for me, nor I for them. I like to read a little more than listed adjectives about someone. Just a little peek of who you are… funny, sensitive, crazy, tough, witty, smart (intellectually or smart backside seat cushion part), shy, the child within, serious, mature, introvert, extrovert, not perfect… something… Oh no, now I’m using to many adjective (I’m a hypocrite). I love to read non mundane things in a person’s profile. Enough with the I... I... I am... Life is good in general. What makes you your own unique person?
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My choice would be to do something that we both enjoy that's simple and comfortable. But that is not today's way with the coffee/drinks meets and thread texting (I do not substitute needed phone conversations with ongoing texting... never). So... we would decide through talking first.
I knew of this but saw it on a gentleman’s profile (thank you gentleman). Try it below.
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The brain is an amazing organ and can overcome many things. Challenge it... think, question, and think again.
It’s okay for you 45% people if you did not get it, in some things you do get a second chance…thank goodness (thank goodness I’m not your teacher – joking here, do not take me serious). Live life and give me back a line or two, if you dare.
Seriously with the playful joking aside. For those who do not get the mind teaser and would like to learn. Concentrate on the first and last letters of the words that do not look like English and unscramble the middle area of the existing letters. Start with the short words first if that will help. The mind teaser is just about subconscious recognition without much thought put into it during the first reading… that’s all.