I am a 28 yr old independent women who enjoys life .... I am very blessed and very blessed to have god in my life . Now something's about me ... I am a laid back person , fun to be around I have a good head on my shoulders ... I'm a focused person and knows what I want out of life and what I want from my life ... I am very educated and have my interior design degree , which I work as a interior decorator for about 4 years now ... I currently attend church , and work in a ministry I love doing gods work just something about helping others in need .. My goal is to open a safe haven for those who are in need and I feel that everyone needs to have a sec chance in life.. I am not about immaturity I don't surround my self around negativity ... What I am looking for is someone that understands that there's more to life then being selfish . I am looking for someone who has a good head on there shoulders has some since of direction in life, goals ... I'm not into guys who like to play games and lie and act like your there only one when they aren't .. I'm a grown women who doesn't have time to be playing games .. I like understanding guys who understand that I'm not always going to be available every 5 min , but I like guys who understands what they have in front of them , because its very rare these days to find a girl who knows what she wants , who has a good head on her shoulders and who has her own .. I'm wifey material I'm not the shack up with someone for years type and still just be there boo , I'm not on that type of status .. Just like everyone I been in a Rocky relationships and what I learned out of if is I'm worth a lot more and wont tolerate or settle for someone who doesn't know how to treat me , and disrespect me every chance they can ... I'm not on here to have guys I cupcake with or friends with benefits , if that's what you want more power to you but don't bother me with that .. I worked very hard to be successful and where I am in my life and won't let anyone take that away ... Like I said before its really hard to find a black educated women who has no children and has a career and knows what she wants in life, seems like guys these days (not all but most just want the immature girls who just jock off them) that's not me .