I am the kind of girl who is unlikely to ever get boring. On the inside, I'm built a little like a guy (my Daddy always wanted a boy:) -- I like watching sports, prefer action movies vs. romantic comedies, and like a lot of men, the chase for me is almost as much fun as the catch. Actually in my ideal world, the "chase" doesn't end. I thrive on a certain amount of uncertainty and don't do well with monotony (No, I didn't say I'm not good with monogamy. I said monotony:). I am not all that interested in “romance” in the traditional sense of the word. I will take friendship over courtship any day. Generally speaking, I would rather someone tell me something ridiculous that makes me laugh than write me a love song or pull out my chair. I value equality in relationships and believe that friendship is the basis of every kind of chemistry.
I'm independent, imaginative, and talented at what I do, and can also be a real moron when it comes to some things. When I’m inspired by something or someone, I am creative and generous. I trust myself and listen to my instincts, and for that reason I am willing to take a few risks. As of this moment at least, I don't have a desire to get married again. That doesn't mean that I am not deeply loyal or capable of long term commitment. I am.
In terms of what I am looking for? I’m attracted to men who know who they are, what they want, and pursue it with confidence. I'm strong, and I admire that trait in others. The kind of strength that doesn't have to be said. You know, if you have to say it... Physically, you need to be taller than me, in good shape, and take pride in your appearance. Intellectually, I gravitate towards people who communicate well, are not shy about expressing their ideas and opinions, and who can both withstand and return a little smack talk. I like being around people who can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves too seriously. I am not thinking too many steps into the future right now. At this point, the big idea is just to meet some new people and have fun.