PerfectSpirit: ~SEEKING A BRILLIANT MIND & A PHILANTHROPIC HEART~
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Winchester, Massachusetts
Details
48 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Christian - other
Ethnicity
Mixed race Capricorn with Brown hair
Intent
PerfectSpirit Actively seeking a relationship
Education
Bachelors degree
Personality
Free Thinker
Profession
Executive Asst & Passionate Volunteer/Activist


dating
Casual Date Nyt~8/16/14~All Bronzed Up & Glowing From BEACHING All Wk! (Smile)






I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious



About Me
I'm Spiritually Grounded Yet Open Minded & Eternally Evolving. I'm Innately Inquisitive About People Of All Ethnicities & Cultures. I Truly Enjoy Engaging In Intellectually Stimulating Conversations About Anything & Everything! My Tastes, Interests & Passions Are Very Eclectic.

ABOUT MY FAMILY & HOME LIFE...MY UNIVERSE: {Smile}
DRAMA FREE! I Was Married For 16 Yrs And Now...I Am An AMICABLY & HAPPILY Divorced Parent Of Two Awesome, Amazingly Handsome, Intelligent, Articulate, Well Rounded & Adjusted, Independent Thinking, HAPPY & Very Respectable Christian Sons...Ages 18 & 16 Yrs Old Who Live At Home With Me. They Also Happen To Have An Equally Incredibly Talented, POSITIVELY Inspiring Close Circle Of Friends! THANK GOD! Yes, I Know That "ALL" Parents Say The Same About Their Children But Honestly, The Greatest Compliment That I Receive Almost Daily From Strangers, Their Educators, Their Coaches & Even Their Friend's Parents Alike...Is How WELL MANNERED & POLITE My Sons Are! Although I'm Divorced, FORTUNATELY I AM NOT A Single Parent...My Ex And I Share Joint Custody & Have Learned To Co-Parent Our Sons Quite Effectively & Seamlessly Through The GRACE OF GOD! I've Been Very Blessed Immensely With My Two Sons & They Have A SPECIAL, Healthy & Close Relationship With Their Father. MY Children Have A Responsible & Dedicated Father & Positive Male Role Model In Their Lives Who Enjoys & Appreciates Spending Weekly, Quality Time With Our Sons & Who Stays Very Actively Involved In Their Day To Day Lives Through DAILY Communication & Enriching Individual & Group Interaction With Them.
MY PASSIONS:
When I'm Not Enjoying & Sharing Quality Time With My Family & Friends...My Passion, My Heart Is Devoted To Community Service. For The Past 9 Yrs, I've Served On The Board Of A Non Profit Org That Is Dedicated To Educating, Advocating & Responding To An Array Of Multicultural Awareness Issues. Our Mission Is To Promote The Recognition, Understanding & Appreciation Of Diversity, To Advocate For Each & Every Person’s Civil Rights & To Confront Intolerance. WhenEver You Have The Opportunity, Please Check Us Out...WMCN.ORG...We're The REAL DEAL! Additionally, I'm A Very Passionate & LIFELONG LOVER & SUPPORTER Of The ARTS, NPR & PBS {Public Programming} I Like To Be Challenged & Inspired To Think Through Stimulating & Thought Provoking Topics & Engaging Dialogue That Encourages Me To "Try On" Different Perspectives. I SIMPLY LOVE Listening To THE MOTH RADIO HOUR & WAIT, WAIT DON'T TELL ME On Saturday Mornings! My Mind, My Body & My Spirit CRAVES The ARTS! Live Jazz, Blues, R & B, Reggae & Gospel Concerts, The BSO...Symphony, The Ballet, Museums, Art Galleries, Live Theater...Plays, Poetry Slams, Comedy Shows & Any Kind Of Cultural Or Spiritual Performances & Events Simply Stimulates All Of My Senses & Makes My Heart & Spirit SMILE!
A GLIMPSE OF MY PERSONAL BELIEFS, LIFE PHILOSOPHY & PERSONAL STYLE ETC: {MY SWAGGER! SMILE}
For The Record I AM A PROUD Card Carrying Native Cantabrigian....AKA The LIBERAL People's Republic Of CAMBRIDGE! LOL I Believe I Am & Continually Strive To Be A Genuine, Personable & COMPASSIONATE Human Being & I Earnestly Work Intently At Relating In Some Way To Everyone Whose Presence God's Grace Allows Me To Experience. I Make It A Point To Always Find Some Common Bond With Everyone No Matter What Our Differences May Be...Whether Ethnic Or Cultural, Socio-Economic, Educational, Religious, Sex Or Sexual Orientation, Generational Or Life Experiences & YES...Even Political Differences! {Smile} Respecting & Celebrating Differences, While Finding Commonalities & Relatable Perspectives Helps Me To Quickly Bond, Build & Maintain An Enriching Rapport With People WhereEver I Travel. I'm Often Told That I Am Quite Engaging, A Great Conversationalist But Even More Importantly, That I'm A Very Sincere, Meticulous, INSIGHTFUL & EMPATHETIC LISTENER. I AM Also Very Detailed Oriented If You Have Not Figured That Out Yet. I APPRECIATE, RESPECT & EXPECT FULL TRANSPARENCY...I THRIVE ON ALL OF THE DETAILS!
MY GUILTY PLEASURES:
I Would Be Remised If I Didn't WARN YOU NOW That I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE BEACH, THE OCEAN & BOATING! It's TRULY My FIRST LOVE & Totally Therapeutic To My Mind, My Body, My Soul & My Spirit! THE BEACH IS MY SPIRITUAL SANCTUARY...MY UTOPIA! It's Paramount That I Note THIS AS A KEY ELEMENT IN MY WORLD Because If YOU Are NOT FEELING The BEACH, Then YOU Will NEVER REALLY GET ME! Although I'm An Avid Animal Lover; I Am FAR From A Vegan...I Simply LOVE & APPRECIATE GREAT FOOD WAY TOO MUCH For That! Whether It's A Five Star Fine Dining Establishment Or A Hole In The Wall Local Greasy Spoon...GREAT FOOD? Then I'M THERE! Ooohhh...And Don't Be Fooled By My Petite Size Either...I LOVE TO EAT! AUTHENTIC FOOD Eaten In The NATIVE LAND Is ALWAYS THE BEST Too! GREAT FOOD & DRINK & The ARTS Simply Compliment One Another & Just Seamlessly Go Hand In Hand! Would YOU Agree? I Definitely Consider MySelf SomeWhat Of A FOODIE! I'm A BIG FAN Of The Phantom Gourmet Show & Occasionally, I Appreciate & Indulge In Watching TOP CHEF Also! Thank God For DVR Technology! I Can Catch Up On All Of My Fave Shows At MidNight When I'm Still Up MultiTasking & MoonLighting As A "DOMESTIC GODDESS"... Doing Laundry, Washing Dishes, Vacuum Cleaning & The Endless, NEVER-ENDING Task Of Cleaning Out My Email In-Box! {Smile}
FULL DISCLOSURE ABOUT MY SENSE OF HUMOR:
All Of My Friends Would Certainly Agree That I'm Rather WITTY & Have An Amazing SENSE OF HUMOR! HowEver, I Must Admit...My Sense Of Humor Borders A Little On The Quirky Side With Just A "Hint" Of SARCASM. {Smile} I TOTALLY Love & Appreciate Satire, I Always Find It To Be Thought Provoking, Stimulating & Entertaining All At The Same Time. I Especially Enjoy Political Satire Such As Comedy Central's The Colbert Report & The Daily Show With Jon Stewart. I'm Also A DIE HARD Kathy Griffin & Larry David Fan! I Honestly Find HBO's Classic Show, Curb Your Enthusiasm To Be SIMPLY BRILLIANT COMEDY At It's Finest. If You're Feeling That Type Of Humor Then You'll Most Likely "GET & APPRECIATE ME" & Some Of My Perspectives & OutLook On LIFE & LOVE! I Make An Effort To See A Bit Of Humor In Everything & I Find Something To Laugh About EveryDay. I LOVE TO Laugh...Especially At Myself! Soooo...If You Take YourSelf TOO Seriously...BEWARE, Your Ego May Get A Little Bruised Over Here...But It's ALWAYS IN LOVE! Well..I Sincerely Wish You Genuine Success In Your Search 4 A Partner & Life Companion Who Is Divinely Created 4 YOU! In God's Speed! If That Is Truly What Your Heart Desires! {Smile} If You Feel That SPECIAL WOMAN Could Be ME...DON'T BE SHY!
Stay Amazingly Blessed & FABULOUS!
Peace, Love & Light! ~G

First Date
Hummm....I Believe That My Very DETAILED Profile Gives One More Than Enough Insight About My Passions, My Sense Of Style & Tastes, My Interests & My Values, Soooo...You Tell Me Where You'd Like To Take Me Out On OUR First Date & Let's See If GREAT MINDS Really Do THINK ALIKE!? {Smile} PS. I Believe That The Man Should Always Plan The First Date, That's A True Gentleman In My Book HowEver, I'd Be Quite Happy To Offer Suggestions. {Smile}

"This Is What I Know To Be TRUE: I Am Worthy Of My Own Time, Energy & Attention & Any Man In My Life Will Have To Be ALSO!" ~Probably...Oprah I Think, But I'M OWNING IT! {Smile}

I'm Presently TEMPORARILY Single. I'm Quite SELECTIVE & Alone By CHOICE, HowEver...I Am NOT Lonely...There Is A DISTINCT DIFFERENCE.

THAT SPECIAL MAN IN MY LIFE...MY HEART YEARNS FOR:
This Is A Season Of RENEWAL & NEW BEGINNINGS For Me & I'm Truly Looking 4Ward To Meeting A POSITIVE, GLASS IS 1/2 FULL Kind Of A MAN. WISE, WITTY, Vibrant, Eclectic, WELL ROUNDED & ADJUSTED, CONFIDENT, HAPPY, ESTABLISHED, SECURE, SPIRITUALLY MINDED & FOCUSED MAN Who Equally Has A Plethora Of Interests & Passions In Hopes That TOGETHER WE CAN SHARE Our Experiences & Passions & EnLighten, EnRich, InSpire & EDIFY Each Other! I'm Earnestly Looking Forward To Appreciating, SHARING & Celebrating, ALL Of The Finer Things That Life Has To Offer With MY SPECIAL MAN! Life Is All About Our RELATIONSHIPS & OUR JOURNEY; "Relationships Are The Avenues To Experience The LOVE Of GOD!" {Lady Bridget Hilliard}

I'M A HOPELESS ROMANTIC & OPTIMIST! I ALWAYS Carry Myself Like A Lady With Style & Grace; HowEver, I'm NOT A High Maintenance, Prude! I Truly LOVE & Respect An "Old School" GENTLEMAN! CHIVALRY Is Certainly NOT DEAD In My Book! In Fact, I Expect & HIGHLY APPRECIATE IT!

BEAR IN MIND...I DO REALIZE THAT THIS IS SIMPLY MY ULTIMATE WISH LIST 2 DISSUADE THE WEAKEST LINKS!
IF I AIM 4 THE MOON...PERHAPS I'LL FIND A STAR? {SMILE}
The Values & Characteristics That I Appreciate, RESPECT & Celebrate In A Man Are: SELF CONFIDENCE, MONOGAMY & HONESTY, An Innate Sense Of Style/"SWAGGER", FAITHFULNESS, A GROUNDED SPIRITUAL Man, Loyalty 2 GOD 1st, Then Ur Woman, Ur Family, Friends, Community & Humanity. AN HONORABLE Man! A Man Of HIS WORD, Even If It's No Longer Convenient 4 U 2 Honor Or Even If It Could Possibly Be 2 Ur Own Detriment! A Man Who Continually Seeks Wisdom & Acknowledges & Values The Power Of Revelation Knowledge.

That BRAINY & STUDIOUS Type Is VERY SeXy 2 Me! A Man Who Appreciates & Values Education, Constantly Strives 2 Improve HimSelf & Those Around Him. A LifeLong Learner & Teacher, Continually Seeking 2 Grow & Evolve. TRUSTWORTHY, COMPASSIONATE, SELFLESS...NOT SELFISH, GENEROUS, LOVING, SENSUAL, Patient, Supportive & Nurturing 2 The Needs Of Others Kind Of Man. A Man Who Truly Lives 2 PAY "IT" 4WARD!


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