It is difficult to connect on these sites. Something is lost in the giving of too much personal data up front. Where is the mystery and excitement In learning about someone you just met?
I want to be animalistically attracted to you first without knowing anything more than what your eyes, smile, and body language can reveal. I want to feel the chemistry which drives us to flirt. However, I'll settle for a few exchanges of emails on here followed by a social interaction of some form in person. ;)
My basic stuff follows and my questionnaire is in excess of 2600 answered. But just because our personal styles might differ doesn't mean we won't click in all the right and wonderful ways that matter. There's so much more beneath the surface. Care to dig over a cup of coffee?
I'm a hedonistic sapiophile, humanistic nihilist, reciprocal altruist, dysmorphic antiestablishment igtheist, tree-hugging green energy enthusiast, toe-ring-wearing pescatarian, and crazy cat boi. =^_^=
I'm searching for more than just attraction and fun, though they are definitely needed for us to click. I want authenticity, depth, resonance, and longevity as well. And love, in its many diverse forms. Open minds, open hearts, open arms, etc. I despise bigotry, cruelty, and presumptiousness. And body hair. Ew! ;)
Probably just something laid back, like conversations over coffee, or maybe a casual stroll through a park on a nice day. Nothing pretentious or intense for that first-time meetup. Nerves are already on edge when you go on a first date, so I prefer to keep it as chill as possible...with no expectations.