I m very positive intelligent and loyal but most of all I m a lady and looking for someone who will treat me as such! I think a relationship will only work if both are commited to each other and treat each other with love and respect! That been said I Iove reading,writing, long walks on the beach (I love the ocean ) I enoy going out, but I also enjoy staying home cooking dinner and watch a good movie. I like all kinds of music except hard rock and rap. I like tostay jn shape . My dream vacation is to visit Hawaii right after Christmas because I want to be with my family for Christmas. My family is very important to me. I have 4 grown children.