OK here's the deal, I am interested in actually meeting someone, talking and if it seems right, dating monogamously. So casual date/no commitment or nothing serious does not interest me. I have several friends but I want to meet someone I can share life with and be friends. So basically real deal dating! I don't want to send endless messages through this site. So, imagine you are in public, if I appear to be someone you would want to walk up to and talk with then message me (not a notification you want to meet, connect or added me to you favorites) and we can exchange numbers then make a time to meet and get to know each other. At that point we can get to know each other and see if it goes anywhere. I will give you a few basics....I do have a job, am a half glass full kind of person. You must be employed and support yourself and have a car. Sorry if this sounds blunt just looking for someone who will add to my life not pull it down.