08/17/15 update I have been told that my profile is long winded and it sounds like I am being shallow and well sorta a ****...just keeping it real and I just don't want to deal with any one with financial or emotional or drama issues because that's not what I'm about! I have not had the best of luck on this site! That's most likely my fault because I am very kind and will give you the benefit of the doubt before I even know you! Anyway just wanted you to know good luck and happy fishing ......... The three words I would use to describe myself are complicated Italian woman. I am a recently single 41 year old woman looking to date with a potential for a relationship. I have 2 girls ages 11 and 12 years old. we as a family are very big into basketball at tournaments just about every weekend. I love to go out to dinner, dancing movies but i can also be a homebody I love to cuddle up on the couch with a good movie!!! I love to travel, camp, read and love music!!!! My favorite music is RnB, classic rock some hip hop top 40 etc. So if you are interested hit me up would love to talk to you!!! I also want to add most of you men put how you are lookin for drama free! BS i have met some of the most dramatic men on this site. Go kick rocks with that. Also i ain't got the time of day for you if all you want is a booty call! Get ta steppin beat it scram do what you got do but leave me alone. Bums need not apply! Updated 04-16-2015 it appears as if I did not make myself clear DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PICS, FREE DRINKS,FREE MEALS, MONEY, SEX, PHONE SEX ANYTHING RELATED TO SEX RIGHT AWAY WITHIN OUR FIRST FEW CONVERSATIONS!!!! I am looking for someone who is serious has his own thing going on has a car and his own place! Someone who knows how to treat a lady! Someone who will pay for the date! You are a Dammm sorry ass excuse if you expect the lady to pay! If I pay you ain't seeing me again! In most cases that goes for Dutch as well! I Do not understand why you are on here if you do not have sh#t to offer? You should be embarrassed! I have a scrub radar that can detect your ass 12 miles away so DO NOT CONTACT ME SCRUBBY! BEAT IT! Let me be real specific here I am looking for a relationship not a one night stand or a few times then I never hear from you again type of situation! Also no men with drama commitment issues or emotional issues or a man that is completely cut off from his emotions! And lastly do not CONTACT me if you plan on getting back on POF if we were to start something! That's it....I really am a great person I know my worth and I know what I want in my life! Peace n love.........Hopefully my Mr. RIGHT IS out there!