I was kewl once. Now I just spend my trying to remember when that was....LOL. At times I use my computer as a TARDIS. One day adventuring in Azeroth, then transporting myself to the Rebel Alliance space station...... At least till reality drags me back in tile to go to work. Not sure if any of this is relevant but there it is. Drop me a line.
I am currently going through divorce after 10yrs of marriage and being with the same person for 20yrs. Now I'm planning MY future and its gonna be a blast! So here is part of the plan: meet people! Not sure how to do that yet (it has been a while since I was focusing anytime on my social life). I have 5 children 4 are grown and gone, but I have an amazing 7yr old - she teaches me something everyday. She is a very important part of my life, but I also know that to be the best for her I need to take some time and make sure I am happy also.
What should you know about me? My normal mode is to joke around with people. I have always enjoyed making people laugh (hopefully not at me but with me) but hey, you take what you can get (and with a face like mine who could blame them .....LOL)!
Communication is huge with me. I want to know about you and I want to tell you about me. I've had many things happen in my life and it would probably make a great book for someone who is really really bored but loves to read. :) I'm a "straight-shooter", if something is bothering me I will "tactfully" tell you what the issue is and I would hope you would do the same. Bluntness is fine if there is no other way to get the point across, but I am not out to make anyone feel badly.
I want to start trying things that are more active, I have dropped almost 100 lbs since June and I'm liking it! Time to find some new things that will help me maintain in my new lifestyle.
I guess there is one thing I don't understand about the choices for a relationship on this site. Are people out there looking for a relationship with just anyone? I want to get to know people and then the relationship will grow from our experiences, and wanting to spend time with each other. I'm not opposed to a relationship, but I can't honestly say I'm just looking for a relationship with just anyone.
If you are interested drop me a line.
Please if I contact you and you are not interested just let me know.
Casual atmosphere - have a few drinks, some food, play some pool or darts, and spend the whole time getting to know each other.