I am a very sensual woman with deep emotions and passion brewing underneath the exterior. To reach these emotions it will require time, patience and tenderness. Do not expect to have me open up to you right away and jump into a relationship. Do not try to lead me on because I am very in-tune with a person’s motivations and I will see right through you. Trust is the single most important thing to me. If you ever betray my trust, you might as well move on. I need love and security. I am the perfect woman for the man who loves to sweep a woman off her feet with romance. I am sensual, sweet and flirty and you two will engage in a gentle, flirtatious dance together while the relationship builds. Once there is a solid, secure foundation, the richness of the relationship will emerge. I am old fashioned, feminine and sensual and patient, if you are the man who can give me what I want, a relationship with me is wholesome and rewarding and can last a lifetime When it comes to independence, I have perseverance and drive to do what needs to be done, I’m self-sufficient and do not need to depend on other people for the material and physical things in life. I’m extremely loyal to those who appreciate and support me; I will protect and cherish people for a long time. One of the greatest things about me is the ability to make others feel good about themselves and loved. This is because instead of doing this for myself, I focus on other people. This is a positive cycle because it makes others feel nurtured, wanted and loved, this to me is rewarding in return I feel good for making someone feel good. Other people can lean on me and depend on me, I will always be there I will listen to people's problems and help them however I will rarely express my own deep feelings to anyone. My friends are usually all lifelong friends that know I can be trusted. Once I resolved my emotional issues such as shyness and insecurity, my powerful character will shine though, there is practically nothing I can't do. I have incredible perseverance and will stand up for what I believe in. I have strong intuition, sensitivity power of observation and intelligence; I know I will have great success in anything I undertake. I’m fragile, unpredictable in a good way; I need to feel that I’m needed. Even when all needs are satisfied, I feel there is still more to do. It is difficult for me to open up and have a close emotionally fulfilled relationship with someone because I am so closed off emotionally and physically to the world. This is driven by my fear of trust; I have a difficult time trusting people. My contradictory nature really takes a toll on me and I can have a negative outlook on life, thinking that life is just too hard and miserable. This is unfortunate because when good experiences are to be seen and felt, I am skeptical of people and their surroundings and I experience tunnel vision due to my untrusted outlook and I miss the nice things and happy experiences in life that make it worth living.
I'm not looking for a model type, I’m looking to find a man that is sincere, honest, lovable, positive, fun, outgoing, smart, hard worker just like me, that appreciates and acknowledges a woman, that will care and love him back, I don’t like the jealous type, that’s only for women that give there men a reason to be insecure, I have no need nor time for DRAMA I’m a women that loves respect and at the same time gives respect back. with this said I’m all about honesty and trust, I’m looking to plan a future together, I have only had two relationships in my life time one was for 11 years and the other for twelve both never had the thought of ever settling down, at the end neither wanted to commit, and decided to walk away when the BIG word of MARRIGE was mentioned I truly believe that if two people love each other and have been together for a while the right thing to do would to get Married, I guess I just haven’t met the special someone that thinks alike……..
You must be direct, Let your feelings for me be known, this is the first step to initiating a relationship with me. This way, I will not have to risk rejection, one of my biggest fears. If you are looking for a short fling, be straight with me. Do not lead me on to thinking there is long term commitment if there is none because you will hurt me emotionally as I am very delicate. Trust is the most important. Build trust with me and I will gradually get closer to you. Give me approval and compliments but be careful because I will easily sense when you are complimenting me just for the sake of it. Be sincere. Ask me for advice, share your problems (but don't burden me), I enjoy helping people and giving advice. I like culture and lavish experiences. Take me to a play or museum and a fancy, upscale restaurant. Do not force me into a relationship or make me make a decision on the spot. I will shy away from you. Have patience, this is the key to attracting me. I love genuine affection. I am very cautious and as time passes, I will slowly grow closer to you and you will have wonderful, fulfilling relationship.