I'm not trying to jump into anything serious right now, unless you're amazing and we just click. I'm open to the prospect of it, but I really just need to take some time and focus on what I'm doing.
I'm not really inclined to message you if you have pictures of yourself in your underwear. That's kind of my equivalent to guys posing without shirts on, and women complain about that.
I've lived here for about a year now. I'm in the process of figuring out what will lie in the future, whether it's more schooling (I'd kind of like another degree) or just figuring out how to land an awesome job that won't suck the life out of me. I've had too many of them.
Music is really important to me. I listen to a pretty large selection of music, but not country. Sorry.
I'm also sorry that my pictures kind of suck. I hate taking pictures because I have a poor self-image (haha). I use humor as a coping mechanism sometimes. I love to rant but usually it's fun to listen to (I used to have my coworkers rolling).
I'm AWESOME at analogies. You might not realize how useful this actually is, but it comes in handy quite often.
I have a quick wit and I like making people laugh. I'm pretty good at it. I like cursing (though I know when I shouldn't).
I don't care about religion. If you have a problem with that, I don't know why, because I don't have a problem with religion unless it's ganging up on me.
There's a lot more to me, but I'd rather let stuff come out naturally. I'm looking for a friend first, and if that grows into something else that's great, but I'm not rushing anything. I'm easy to talk to and can carry a conversation, so don't message me if you can't.
I also don't deal well with impossible people. Don't try and coerce me to do what you want to do if I don't want to. I don't do that to people and can't stand when others try it. I have an open mind and hope you do too.
Some of you sound pretty racist with your preferences. I might recommend a more tactful way of saying you aren't attracted to black men.
Break up your profiles! Nobody wants to read a huge paragraph! I mean, I know this isn't perfect, but come on! You know you hate when a person has a solid block of stuff to read through!
Good luck on here. Slim pickings, it seems.
Let's do something? I don't know of anything outstanding in the area. I usually keep it simple; dinner and a movie, dinner and walking around. Even if I go to the movies, I don't like to just see a movie and eat. I can't really think of a first date I had that didn't have an hour or so of walking around and talking. It's always in public because I know that people can be creepy and it's more comfortable for everyone that way.