I'm conent at the moment, would just like someone to share random evenings/days out with. I've recently finished buying a home, and have lots of ideas and projects to keep me busy. It would be nice to have some feminine input and companionship. I have a steady career, my own car, and pay my bills on time. I've never been drunk (don't really drink actually), I haven't been in jail, arrested, I've never done drugs, or smoked for that matter. I don't have tattoos or piercings. I really don't even know if I'm cut out for dating in this time period. I often feel as if I'd be more at home in the 50's. I don't really need a relationship, I would just like to have someone to share things with. I like to consider myself cautious but optimistic. I'm usually in a fairly good mood. I hate conflict and try to avoid it at all costs.
I believe one must be honest, but respect someone's feelings. You can debate, but you don't have to make low blows. Try not to judge someone for past mistakes, unless they repeatedly continue doing the same thing. I'm a non-confrontational person, I don't name call, however I may make a smart ass comment or snide remark. I'm not gonna say I'm a nice guy, that's usually the funeral dirge for any hope of a relationship anyway. Hell, you could think I'm a douche bag. But that's your decision to make. I've been told that I'm a good listener, and actually enjoy trying to help people out with their problems. That's most likely because I'm fairly reserved and not apt to discuss my own issues.
I'm usually content just driving and talking, or watching a flick. I wanna chat about a movie we just watched. I wanna know how your day was while we share a good meal. I want someone to go on a vacation with. Someone willing to try new things and not afraid to talk nerdy to me.
Much like Bilbo, I want someone to go on an adventure with.
I love movies, but I know ladies aren't fond of them on a first date. That is of course unless you want the first date to the be the last and you don't wanna talk to the guy for the last 2+ hours.
So, lets do dinner at a place neither of us have eaten at. We're on equal ground, both unfamiliar with everything, and we can share in the delight or disgust of the place. We'll spend a couple hours just talking and getting to know one another and then after we'll make plans for a second. (Cause....well......yes, I know you're gonna want a second date with me.)
Or we can bowl or walk around the mall or something.