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Age: 48
Long term
SouthCLT
Age: 37
Long term
ALoverofLife: Spiritual-Passionate-Loving-Affectionate-Romantic
About
Non-smoker with Athletic body type
City
Charlotte, North Carolina
Details
49 year old Man, 5' 8" (173cm), Other Religion
Ethnicity
Other ethnicity Capricorn with Black hair
Intent
ALoverofLife Actively seeking a relationship
Education
PhD / Post Doctoral
Personality
Profession
Speaker, Author, Coach, Consultant, Minister, ND







I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years



About Me
NOTE: NO PICTURE NO RESPONSE!

About Her:

She is a woman that truly wants to Invest in Constructing a Beautiful Relationship, and not just hang out, have fun, spend time together while building nothing. She Deeply Values, Hungers and Thirst for Spiritual knowledge, Wisdom, & Understanding more than anything else in this world. A woman that knows what is of First Priority and Value in life, so that all the other things needed, wanted and desired can be added unto her (Happiness, Success, Love, Riches, Peace of Mind, Freedom, Joy, Financial Security, and everything else).

She knows her truest and deepest beauty comes from what she is from the inside, and how that is projected on the outside. She allows her inner beauty to be expressed into creation. She is not superficial and all into how much attention and gifts she can get from men, that are vain enough to base their desire to connect with her solely on how attractive she is perceived to be physically.

She knows honestly that NO one has control over what their Genetics or DNA is going to be, and therefore can not honestly take credit for what they look like physically to a certain degree. She knows you can only do your best to maintain what God & Your Parents gave you to work with physically! She knows looks attract and represent only 1/3 but the Greater 2/3rds of her are her Spirit & Mind.

SHE KNOWS FROM OBSERVATIONS ALONE THAT THE MOST PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN IN THE WORLD HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO HOLD THEIR RELATIONSHIPS TOGETHER WITH LOOKS AND PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS ALONE!!!! SHE KNOWS THE STATISTICS! SHE SEES HOW HOLLYWOOD'S MOST SO CALLED BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ARE ALWAYS IN AND OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES AND THAT THE ATTENTION TO LOOKS METHODOLOGY ULTIMATELY HAS NOT PROVEN SUCCESSFUL IN SUSTAINING LOVE BUILT RELATIONSHIPS!

She is a woman that knows the greater 2/3ds of her is what will Ultimately hold a divinely loving relationship together. She is not vain to think her looks and body will hold a relationship together. With Age the Body is going to change. She knows there is no getting around it. She sees that the relationships and marriages that have sustained are based on Spiritual & Mental Unity, and that the Physical aspects played only a small part and role.

She knows what it is to be a woman (Loving, Nurturing & Giving) and is not just looking for a man for activity and entertainment purposes (to use), because she is bored with herself and just wants somebody to hang out with and help her to temporarily escape and forget her own sense of boredom and lack of self worth, value & fulfillment.

She is not a woman that is looking for a man Based on How Good he Looks and Appearances Either. She is a woman that knows that Looks do not Pay Bills, Make Wise Choices, Know how to love and respect a woman, Know how to raise a child, Know how to appreciate a woman, make decisions for a Family, or take care of them in the event of an unforeseen life crisis. She sees that women with this Appearance Modus Operandi go through life with True Love and Happiness escaping them. She knows that if you seek a pretty picture that does not function, you will get what you sought. A pretty picture, that does not function in life.

She is a wise woman, looking for her best friend, a wise man, spiritual head, cover and partner, to build a long term and truly lasting unconditional relationship and bond with, based on Eternal, Divine & Spiritual Principles that NO man and I mean No Man, Woman, or Man-made/human institution can put under.

She is not a woman living in a FANTASY WORLD based on MOVIES AND ROMANCE NOVELS!!! She is truly rooted in REALITY! She is truly a Virtuous Woman, and a Wise Woman that builds and knows that a quality relationship does not just happen by itself, but must be worked on and built daily in THE REAL SUBSTANCES OF Unconditional Love and Divine Wisdom.

She is a woman that knows you do not build anything without first SEEKING the knowledge, understanding and wisdom it is going to take to build it. She knows you must truly and GENUINELY desire to have what you want, to BE willing to put in the required W-O-R-K and E-F-F-O-R-T it is going to take to CREATE and SUSTAIN it!

Now about Me:

I am a professional, self employed, and very Business and Entrepreneurial Minded. I truly enjoy entrepreneurship and operating my businesses, for it constantly reminds me that I am a creator, and that I must create the things I need or desire in this life!

God (Life`s) very first act was to create or express itself. Therefore I am trying to be the very image and likeness of my creator in reflecting what I have learned. This is what has and will continue to allow me to obey the command of being fruitful and multiplying and replenishing the land.

I feel that I am a great conversationalist and communicator, because I understand the lost art of selfless listening, or true relating, for all communications are not just words, but the expression of your whole being.

The Child in me enjoys the daily return to the purity of being an innocent observer, explorer, discoverer, questioner and tester of the truths of life. The daily return to this state of unlimited possibilities knows no end, and frees me from societies concepts of lack, and competing where someone loses and wins!

I enjoy becoming more of life, and therefore religion (re-linking) or (re-turning) back to my origin or original state of being, while at the same time simultaneously expanding far beyond and away from that center with my increasing circle of evolution and awareness.

So the maintenance of my total being (Spirit, Mind and Body) is very important to me. For the first established relationship I have and must be successful at is the one I have with myself! For if I am divided, I can not stand, and my external relationships will not have a chance.

I am a very unique, original, authentic and creative person, for I let Love (my unconditional state of being) be my guiding light.

I return to Darkness (which is the hidden, invisible, unseen or unrevealed state of nothingness). In this womb (I embrace my original state of being, new life, and the potential for new development).

It is in this state of Darkness, which is the source of light, that the activity of elimination, preparation and formation through rest, regeneration or recuperation can give birth to continued growth and manifestation. For Both Darkness and Light are my Heavenly Abodes! :-)

For I live in the timeless state of the present, here and now, knowing the past is dead, and the future can never be found; for all is in the Present Now!

For I seek not to be something, but the Holy Nothing, which is always Everything!

First Date
A first date would be one in a environment and atmosphere conducive to talking & communicating; and you can be yourself without having to put on a act just to be impressive to the other.

To me it is important to see if you truly like being with each other, have common goals, interest and want to work cooperatively together in life as a unit more than anything.

IF there are common goals and values, chemistry, we like being together, and you genuinely want to grow, enjoy and share your life with someone else, and not alone, who knows what the possibilities might be.


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