You attract more bees with honey than you do with vinegar.
You also attract everyone with honey and maybe everyone isn't what I want.
There is something very special that makes the inner workings of my mind, heart, energy and intentions.
I'm more honest and trustworthy than anyone I know and incredibly passionate, understanding and accepting.
I am not easily fooled. I am willing to entertain that there is so much more to things than being just black and white.
My spirit is young and playful. My mind is sharp and often pained by the harsh realities that are life. My heart is caring and eager to help others.
If you want to get into a relationship with me, there will be laughter, pillow fights, random affection, a lot of love and more.
With that comes a person with deep thoughts and a will to survive. I often put the people I care about long before myself. I'm naturally a caregiver and nurturer. I can be mean and destructive when the people I value most are hurt or toyed with.
You will find that I am both an equal balance of lover and fighter.
My face is gorgeous with eyes that capture and a matching smile.
Long dark hair worn both straight and naturally curly.
My body is considered SSBBW. I'm 400lbs and working with a personal trainer now. Why am I going into this? Relationships only work if both parties are attracted to each other and part of it is physical attraction. I am honest with myself and others so this I feel it should be mentioned. I personally hate being referred to as bbw. I do not pride being morbidly obese. I have a serious thyroid problem and I enjoy food very much.
If you are a chubby chaser... I'm not looking for a fetish king. I've been trying my whole life to be healthier. I don't want set backs.
That all said... I am very fat, great boobs, monster hips, hardly an ass and pretty face lol.
I like perfumes and smell wonderful with good hygiene. lips piercing, ears pierced and 3 small tattoos.
Going to concerts
Driving my dodge challenger rt
Comedy clubs and standup comedy
Swimming and beach trips
Cooking awesome meals
Throwing parties and hanging with my friends
Grabbing some drinks and smoking every once in a while
Watching cartoons like futurama, bobs burgers, family guy etc.
The walking dead is my favorite show since it came out.
WHAT I WANT:
I know exactly what I really want!
I want someone worth giving my all to because they would do the same for me.
No more with only giving. All I do is give and I will continue to give as long as I get love in return. I want someone who will accept me for me. Being a flirty man while we are together is a deal breaker. I'm all about monogamy. I'm an adult. I want to be with an adult. Living at moms, working dead end minimum wage jobs, men who have babies they can't take care of, the on the low sex only, discreet stuff, men looking to leech or make me a taxi... I want NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!
YOU CANNOT LIVE FURTHER THAN 20 miles from Philly. Long distance relationships are miserable and I don't want one.
I want a man who has his sh*t somewhat together and is proud to say he has by his side a solid, quick witted woman with a beautiful heart and mind. I spoil my man.. too much actually. I am a passionate lover, nurse, cook and friend. Please don't waste my time or your own with ill intentions. If you are over 25 years old, you should know what values make you who you are. Please be 100% cool with my weight whether 400 or 160lbs if you contact me. I can be very insecure in that regard and I need you to really know if that is an issue before you play with my heart.
I am all over the place but I adore music.
Beatles, The Roots, Nas, Wu tang, Biggie, A tribe Called quest, 311, Doo wop, Stevie Wonder, Death metal, sepultura, pantera, soulfly, Elvis Crespo, Don omar, Depeche Mode, Sade, John Legend, erykah badu, lupe fiasco, billy joel, mos def, bob marley, common, dry kill logic, led zeppelin, sinatra, tony bennett, the four seasons, imogen heap, daft punk, innerpartysystem, kid cudi, michael jackson, tool, aperfect circle, seven dust, cheb mami, queen...
To name a few.
I own my own home.
No pets... love dogs even though I have none.
Work at home and Im up in NY once a week.
I am a graphic designer.