Single Mom looking to reconnect with the world. Friends first. Things should grow from there.
I am seeking something special.!!! Somebody that is not too tired to make me believe I'm worth the extra effort.
A man who loves Christ and will stand beside me throughout the years and kneel with me in prayer is what I am looking for.
My daughter is the most important thing in my life. I am really picky about the type of people I allow her to be exposed to. Absolutely NO Metholeptics allowed. Additionally, I do NOT do other peoples "crazy". If you have issues, that require those around you to wear body armor, have a steady supply of bail money or a role of duct tape and a straight jacket on hand for those "just in case" moments, we don't need to know each other.
I love pretty much all kinds of music. I enjoy making things better or prettier when I can. So painting, creating, planting... Yea. My current health issues have slowed me down a bit, but not for long. The hippy in me wants to build a cob house one day. The more I read about them, the more I want to do it on a larger scale. I'm a bit claustrophobic.
I am NOT the ultimate healer. If your heart belongs to someone else that you "just never got over" most likely hanging out with me will not help you with that. I might add that myself and anyone else deserve better than that also. While I am not willing to jump head into something with both feet and eyes closed, I don't need emotionally unavailable friends either. You MUST be ready to move forward and on in life. No chickens allowed, I can't be brave for two, have enough trouble fighting my own fears. Another reason things with me move at a snails pace. Can't afford to make anymore mistakes. Some folks might call that being judgmental, I see it as eliminating bad elements so they don't cause me problems later.
I am blunt sometimes to a fault and I work on that daily. I still have a good sense of humor and enjoy life as much as I can in my free time. My religious beliefs are very important to me. I am a Christian and while my friends are very diverse, anyone I would be in a committed relationship with would have to be Christian as well and not only in name. I cuss sometimes when I'm mad, and I sin like everyone else. Which is WHY I need Christ. If I were perfect, I'd need no forgiveness. I'm not looking for perfect either. I am looking for strong character though. Someone who makes the effort to do the right thing because its the right thing- even when they don't always succeed.
I do like to enjoy life. I have a sense of humor, sometimes it's a bit weird but I have one. I'm shy and most of the time I'm an observer rather than a speaker. This makes developing new relationships difficult for me. I'm not an entertainer so don't expect too much flash, dazzle or baffled bullsquat when meeting me. It takes awhile for some of those more perky traits to emerge. I'm a bit reserved.
I'm 49, overweight, and have medical issues because of it. Just putting that out there. I try to do things to improve that situation but as of yet have not been successful. Other than the high blood sugar I'm pretty happy with myself the way I am. I expect my friends and or future partner to be as well.
If you've read all this and find yourself interested, send me a message. I'm old fashioned that way.
That's about it for the purpose of this profile. Good luck everyone, I hope you all find exactly what you "need". God Bless you all.
Coffee and get to know you convo. After that would be a "first date". In which may I say that I respond well to men who go the extra light year to put real thought into it. I'm a bit old fashioned. Most fella's today have lost ALL their courtship skills. At our age they have given up on it. If you are one of those who have.... then we are going to be chat partners and friends at best. Just saying. Again may GOD lead and guide you to the one who brings out the best in you, strengthens you, completes you, and blesses you.