Hello world! Please call me Scarlett... No seriously, please..
I'm a bay area native and I have been through all different phases and stages of life. I know what I want in a partner, I'm just REALLY bad at putting it into words most of the time. My friends will swear I don't have a shy bone in my body, but I'm friends with them.. I'm not looking to date any of them and dating is an entirely different bowl of pudding. I've reached a point in my life where I am tired of kissing frogs, or princes that wind up being toads... I want a prince, who will remain a prince. A delightful, funny, geeky prince who will be able to go with the all the crazy that lurks underneath my freckled skin. I won't dumb myself down for anyone, and I don't want to be with some one who feels a need to do that for me.
I'm stubborn.. No really I'm very stubborn. When there is something I want I will be very hard pressed to give it up if I even think there is a chance I MIGHT get what I'm after.
that being said, I'm in it for the along haul. If the first few dates go well with some one, and thing progress further, I usually know fairly quickly weather or not on my end at leas,t things are going to last for a while.
I'd like you to be a little bit geeky, Maybe like Disney movies, be patient.. oh please be patient with me. Be romantic, be honest, understand that there are going to be days where I honestly have no idea what I want, and that by digging for answers or pushing for answers will not help things along. I'm a woman and trust me, sometimes we are not being difficult on purpose!
I like to spend time with my friends, playing board games, or tabletop games like Pathfinder. I'm a fan of the shows like Doctor Who, Red Dwarf, Poirot Cutthroat kitchen, things like that. I rarely watch the news - it's too depressing- and I am not a person to talk politics with ( Seriously, I'll just nod my head and go "Mm hmm" and things like that)
There are days when I am one of the most serious and mature people you might ever meet, but put me in a room with three of my oldest friends and it becomes a festival of "The Room" quotes and "Cards against Humanity" topics
I want to meet new people and make new friends and hopefully, find a relationship that lasts. No booty calls, no hook-ups, no FWBs. Thats not how I operate.
I find it odd how very few people read these darn things and then send off messages that simply read "Ur a QT" I may not be the greatest speller in the world, but that is just lazy and therefore not a person I want to spend any amount of time on/with.
I feel like I should point out that I am a larger woman, kinda in the "Fluffy" Level ya know.. that being said I am by NO MEANS easy or desperate. I have somewhat high standards and the last person who told me I should lower my standards because of my appearance learned a fairly painful lesson.
I was hoping I wouldn't need to put this on here but apparently I do.. I am not drug friendly, this includes pot.. sorry..but I simply have no desire to be around people that partake, don't like it? Then kindly shove off