Hello world! Please call me Scarlett... No seriously, please..
I'm a bay area native and I have been through all different phases and stages of life. I know what I want in a partner, I'm just REALLY bad at putting it into words most of the time. My friends will swear I don't have a shy bone in my body, but I'm friends with them.. I'm not looking to date any of them and dating is an entirely different bowl of pudding. I've reached a point in my life where I am tired of kissing frogs, or princes that wind up being toads... I want a prince, who will remain a prince. A delightful, funny, geeky prince who will be able to go with the all the crazy that lurks underneath my freckled skin. I won't dumb myself down for anyone, and I don't want to be with some one who feels a need to do that for me.
I'm stubborn.. No really I'm very stubborn. When there is something I want I will be very hard pressed to give it up if I even think there is a chance I MIGHT get what I'm after.
that being said, I'm in it for the along haul. If the first few dates go well with some one, and thing progress further, I usually know fairly quickly weather or not on my end at least, things are going to last for a while.
I'd like you to be a little bit geeky, Maybe like Disney movies, be patient.. oh please be patient with me. Be romantic, be honest, understand that there are going to be days where I honestly have no idea what I want, and that by digging for answers or pushing for answers will not help things along. I'm a woman and trust me, sometimes we are not being difficult on purpose!
I like to spend time with my friends, playing board games, or tabletop games like Pathfinder. I'm a fan of the shows like Doctor Who, Red Dwarf, Poirot Cutthroat kitchen, things like that. I rarely watch the news - it's too depressing- and I am not a person to talk politics with ( Seriously, I'll just nod my head and go "Mm hmm" and things like that)
There are days when I am one of the most serious and mature people you might ever meet, but put me in a room with three of my oldest friends and it becomes a festival of "The Room" quotes and "Cards against Humanity" topics
I want to meet new people and make new friends and hopefully, find a relationship that lasts. No booty calls, no hook-ups, no FWBs. Thats not how I operate.
I find it odd how very few people read these darn things and then send off messages that simply read "Ur a QT" I may not be the greatest speller in the world, but that is just lazy and therefore not a person I want to spend any amount of time on/with.
I recently acquired a cat, at least four times while editing this profile - been over a year since I used it- I have had to keep her from eating things she shouldn't... If she isn't trying to eat something she is carrying around her kitten collar and meowing at me. It's quite adorable.
I wonder at times how well people read these things, seriously. I ask and am often told " I glanced at it" and then suddenly I am the bad guy because I am not what was expected. I am fat. I do not hide thst, it's written now in more than one place. Why do I not have a full body picture? because people can be nasty, and I dont particularly like how parts of my body look. chat and get to know me and I am far more likely to show what my body is shaped like.
I dunno, Surprise me?
I'm a pretty mellow person. I'm content with a nice quiet picnic, or maybe you want to hand my ass to me during a game of pool. I feel a first date should be an expression of the people involved in it. It's a chance to show me what kind of person you are.