Hello world! Please call me Scarlett... No seriously, please..
I'm a bay area native and I have been through all different phases and stages of life. My friends will swear I don't have a shy bone in my body, but I'm friends with them..
I guess I should get this out of the way early on so as to not waste anyone's valuable time: I'm in an open relationship.
For the many people out here that may not be clear on what that means I shall explain. An open relationship is NOT the same as being poly. NOT THE SAME. Were I poly, then I would have multiple of the same kinds of relationships going on and my attention would be equally split between my partners. This being an open relation it means I can go on dates, I can make male friends, I can sleep with them if I so choose. I'm not looking for a second boyfriend.
I like to spend time with my friends, playing board games, or tabletop games like Pathfinder. I'm a fan of the shows like Doctor Who, Red Dwarf, Poirot Cutthroat kitchen, things like that. I rarely watch the news - it's too depressing- and I am not a person to talk politics with ( Seriously, I'll just nod my head and go "Mm hmm" and things like that)
There are days when I am one of the most serious and mature people you might ever meet, but put me in a room with three of my oldest friends and it becomes a festival of "The Room" quotes and "Cards against Humanity" topics
I want to meet new people and make new friends.
I find it odd how very few people read these darn things and then send off messages that simply read "Ur a QT" I may not be the greatest speller in the world, but that is just lazy and therefore not a person I want to spend any amount of time on/with.
I recently acquired a cat, at least four times while editing this profile - been over a year since I used it- I have had to keep her from eating things she shouldn't... If she isn't trying to eat something she is carrying around her kitten collar and meowing at me. It's quite adorable.
I wonder at times how well people read these things, seriously. I ask and am often told " I glanced at it" and then suddenly I am the bad guy because I am not what was expected. I am fat. I do not hide that, it's written now in more than one place. Why do I not have a full body picture? because people can be nasty, and I dont particularly like how parts of my body look. chat and get to know me and I am far more likely to show what my body is shaped like.
I'd like to meet you face to face in a neutral, low key environment. I want to make sure you're a living human being, or a cyborg.. Cyborgs can be cool too 3