geckojen: Wondering where in the Universe is he!
Non-smoker with Average body type
North bay, California
51 year old Woman, 5' 6" (168cm), Catholic
Caucasian Virgo with Red hair
geckojen is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree
Animal Lover

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Second Language Spanish  

Art showsMuseumsRock concerts
Being outdoors star gazing movies once in a whileLove to walkHorseback riding

About Me
Ah, dating,it's like seeing who wants to dance with you, LOL!!

It's funny because,when in high school, I sometimes went without a date,to a dance, with my girl friends. And I remember getting the courage up and asking a guy to dance,after waiting an hr.
I thought, if I keep waiting for "him",whoever he is, to ask me to dance, the dance will be over!
I felt like a fool at first, but I think the guy secretly was enjoying the attention,atleast it seemed. :)

Seems like when I was much younger, it was a lot easier meeting people, now it seems people are more difficult to find.

I think at this age, well okay, my age, people tend to be extremely selective in what they are looking for. I understand, I have the same tendency,maybe too selective, so it's taking me longer! LOL! :)

I've had some great dates, and for different reasons we didn't make a good match, I'm still searching. That's okay, I'm done with just settling without honoring what/who I really want.

For now, friendships are what I'm looking for. I have put too much pressure on myself thinking of long term commitment, so I decided to loosen the reins and just relax about it, see who's out there.

And if it's meant to be, I'll meet someone with whom I'll want to stay with, if not, I'll have met some friends.

I'm a happy person, sometimes a bit too silly, but that's my nature, and quite frankly, I'd rather be like that than some ungrateful sour person!

Thoughtful and have a tendency to want to save people or help them , guess that's the nurse in me, :)

I think I'm too sensitive at times, I'm a softy, not harsh. But that's part of who I am, I will not ever have a tough exterior or calloused hide as some people have suggested I develop. That will never be me.

I'm not a push over , and I will stand my ground when needed. I'm a survivor.

Divorced in '08.Not bitter, just did not make the right choice in a partner and it became necessary to part ways.

I'm very independent and would never ask a guy for money, and I cannot be bought. So relax the high maintenance worries!

I'm NOT looking for a guy who's only looking for a lady with superficial qualities.That would be Barbie in Malibu.And you might find Ken talking to her if you visit there. They will live happily superficial, and plastic, ever after! LOL!

I love being out in nature, looking at all the details God has created on this earth.

Looking up at the night sky and wondering what is beyond what NASA has discovered so far!! I won't pretend to be an expert at space science, but I love to learn as much as I can, even if a lot of it is beyond(there's that word again, but can't come up with another word to take it's place) my comprehension.

I have a wonderful elderly mom,wonderful younger sister , and a great brother too.Have great friends from childhood. I love them dearly.

I'm prior US Navy RN,Nurse Corps x4 yrs, retired as a LT.

Now I work as an advice R.N. and love what I do, how lucky I am to be able to speak with patients and give them advice and discuss prevention for good health!

I have a clean history.No trouble with the law nor drugs and proud to be the nerd that I am!!

I believe in God, although I haven't been to church in yrs.Baptised Catholic.

Looking forward to whoever is out there meant for me to meet and enjoy! :)

First Date
Coffee, ok tea or whatever else you want to drink ,as long as you are not impaired by it and can therefore drive SOBER !.

Go for a walk and talk.

Will never argue with having dessert. Even lunch.

But in a public place. I want to feel out the situation and make sure I'm safe.

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