I am outgoing love talking and listening equally, have had my share of drama over the years and have always been second in relationships so now i have promised myself i will not do that again, so I am looking for that person who will treat me as I will treat them with dignity, respect, be there for them even if its just to hold their hand and not say a word, love holding hands , gentle rubs and affection. enjoy riding my motorcycle, and being with friends , listening to live bands, playing horseshoes, late night movies, rides to nowhere, swimming late night in the pool. i also like quiet times just sitting out on the deck listening to nature. want to add that I despise when the person I am with has to check their cell phone every 10 minutes or find it necessary to bring up their past lovers or ex's , they should just go back to them. I am me and I will not change at this age you can accept me for who I am or not, I am not perfect but either are you :) not saying I wont try changing some things that might make you uncomfortable I am always trying to improve myself, I can be sarcastic in my humor but not damaging or degrading , If you take everything literally that's said then we will not get along I enjoy a laugh even at myself which is usually a lot. I am a fixer and problem solver that's the engineering side of me, I can do pretty much anything as long as it doesn't involve heights like a roof. I am not a neat freak but I do not like clutter , I enjoy cooking especially with somebody while talking and drinking some wine or drink of your choice. I am a hands on guy I will want to hold your hand while driving, rub your feet while laying on the couch watching tv or give a gentle back rub for no reason other than to make you feel good, in return I would like to have you take my hand maybe while in the kitchen cooking or out in the mall especially walking along the beach with our feet in the water these are the things that get my fire going. I can be a man and I can be like a child in your hands its all up to what were doing at the time, I am usually found with a smile. I sometimes have a hard time relaying what is in my head and it might take me a few hrs , minutes or a day to hash through some things that might be on my mind but I do not do good under pressure when it comes to talking about a problem , I need the time to run things through my head before I speak if not I say what is in my head at the time and it may not sound bad to me yet it could be taken out of context causing you to feel hurt so that's why I like to think it out first , once the words are out of our mouths they can never be taken back, I would much prefer no conflicts but then there would be no making up and that's the fun part. so if I haven't scared you off at this point then send me a message, oh I need to say this I am not a big man I am 5'7" I weigh 165lbs if you are bigger than me it will not work sorry i have nothing against full figured or heavy set people I just wont date anyone that is bigger than me in in weight i have no problem with somebody taller than me if that doesn't bother you so that's my story and I'm sticking to it :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
someplace we can talk get to know a little about each other starbucks, sports bar, Fridays, or a place near you that you are comfortable meeting at and go from there.