My name is TJ and currently I am employed as a corrections officer for New York State. I sm a really nice, sweet caring guy who likes to have fun and enjoy life. I am smart, hard working and very motivated to succeded at anything I set my mind too. I am very goal oriented and want to accomolish all of my goals. On April 7, 1993 my father who was seperated from my mom died of cancer and it left my family alone and made life difficult but it also made all of us stronger and very close. Last year was by far my biggest nightmare. My mother who is my hero was diagnosed with cancer on February 2, 2012 and died on June 11, 2012 at 5:45am. For many reasons and way too many to list here my mom was not just my hero but the greatest and most amazing person ever! Obviously family is everything to me. I have a brother and sister, five beautiful nieces and one awesome nephew. I love staying active at the gym and playing sports. I have bills season tickets and go to as many sabres games as possible. I am just a great guy who wants to find someone who wants to live life and enjoy it abd build a future!