• Open your heart
• Understand that friendship, mutual respect and attraction are the cornerstones and basis for any relationship
• Find the value in one woman
• Experience the world through ideas, travel, art and conversation
• Find the joy of life beyond your family, career and/or children. Yes, they are all very important, this is an extension not a replacement.
• Explore the possibilities of a longer term relationship
• Be loved by someone who might seem superficial but loves to provide affection.
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Believe me I could go on and on about me and tell you how I'm an adventurous optimist who loves to sample what life has, question, learn and explore. I do have secrets and skills beyond the superficial. I love to create amazing culinary delights with a fellow chef or a gourmand who loves to chat while I cook. I enjoy evenings out fine dining, an absolute dive, a new place, festivals and really all the world offers. I can have fun regardless of where I am. I can go anywhere and mingle happily, butter up a client or boss, stay by your side making everyone jealous ;) (It is hard though to keep my mouth shut but I can on the necessary occasion as long as it’s not expected all the time. ;)
Still I love relaxing on my deck, grilling out, chatting or just enjoying company. I also love to hang out at home without all the pretentiousness watching a movie or sitting by the fire (not in 95 degrees---but if we turn up the AC high enough it can be done ;)
I am often told I am quirky, passionate, intelligent, loyal, and brutally honest. If that is not true, I thank all those people who have lied to me over the years. ;) I’m agile and can adapt to any environment. I am diverse, creative and find that there is nothing sexier than a man with a quick wit who can dish it out. I can take it but do give it back ;)
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