Not all of us can be that boring Prince Charming ,,,someone has to give you all the bad boy sex and orgasms you all so desire deep down inside ;)
Then again some can be both.
When we are young. We are relaxed and happy. We would jump at a date and not worry if ever little thing was to be and if it worked great, if not we went to the next date. We let ourselves be free to love and hurt
Jump to 40 something and for most 3/4 divorces ( never did understand that ) and all we do is pick apart ever little opportunity with someone.
Hurt holds us back and love is wore out
We do things like my kids come first not yours. I don't want to share what I have built up our lose it AGAIN !!!!
It's not if any good women / men are out there ,,,what holds us back is fear ,,the fear to shut down the picky / demand we put on the other sex and open the mind and heart and take a chance on a date and maybe love as we did when young
Come mid June I have a empty nest and I love it. Plenty of free time and attach that to the fact that I'm one of the few that is truly happy as a single person ( but not against having someone in my life ) happy means I don't need someone to be happy but someone could make happy ,,,happier
Ok that's all later
A simply meet over coffee,ice cream,dinner and a nice walk afterwards
You know something just nice and comfy.to get the spark going