to date someone who is looking for the same interest in life as i am. Outgoing, kind hearted like me. Non smoker who takes pride in their appearance and health .treat others the way u want to be treated . my 5 non negotiable s are no smoking,no drinking everyday, no drugs, be in shape, at least go to the gym , have a job, work as hard as i do . dont be lazy!! AND not meeting anyone just to hook up if thats what you want then keep it moving ,,u have the wrong fish..Also I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes. So someone who enjoys good healthy dinner and conversations, so how was your day?