Im a woman who knows what she wants. Im very independant and secure with myself. I say what I mean and I mean what I say and Im not afraid to say it. I wear my heart on my sleeve. My goal in regards to a relationship is finding the right guy to settle down with. Im really not the dating type, I am definitely not like most women, Im a little old fashioned sometimes when it comes to how a man should treat a woman, which, Im finding, is quite challenging for men today. I enjoy going to concerts and I go to them quite often. Music is my inspiration. Im really into 80's music, New Wave, Hard Rock, Hairbands, etc., but my taste in music is a wide spand. Things that really turn me off are selfish, immature, shallow guys....if you have any of those qualities, Im definitely not your girl. However, a man who knows his true feelings and is not afraid to express them is a huge plus!!