hobbies and interests include: yoga, meditation, reading, writing, electric cars, holistic healing, spending time in nature or near the ocean, spirituality. Some of my goals and aspirations include owning my own home, finishing my book. My taste in music varies from classical and jazz to rock and irish celtic/folk. I don't do country - even though I am originally from the south (Tennessee). I'm a creative, spiritual, sensitive, passionate, and compassionate person. I am a firm believer there is more to a relationship than just physical intimacy, but having said that, I also feel its one of the most important aspects to a relationship, so please understand I am seeking someone who enjoys physical contact. You have a big heart and are a wonderful human being. I'm warm and caring - encouraging and nuturing. I'm also extremely patient. I'm told I have a mellow personality. Hopefully, you embody these traits too. I don't walk on water. No need for you to either. Just be.
Let me be clear on this from the beginning: if we meet in person, it will be DUTCH over tea or coffee - not dinner or lunch. If your are just like so many other woman looking for a free meal, please move on to the next guy. I'm all in favor of supporting charity cases, but 98% of you ladies have good jobs. And if i meet 3 women a week it really starts to add up. I have evolved from the era of the caveman where the man went out and brought home the kill. This is 2014. Want me to pay? Then you will have to earn my trust. I will open doors, pay you complements, and listen to you about your day. But until we have developed a relationship, i see no reason in having to pay on the first date. 99.9% of the dates I have to pay for are always "conveniently" lacking chemistry (or so I'm told after). Please don't mislead the good guys. Be a sweet and be firm when you meet us and insist that you split the bill up front if you aren't attracted to us. Or if the check is on the high side.
There... With that out of the way... Shall we proceed?
I'm reserving all expectations until we meet in person. Play it by ear. I'm open to whatever happens and what we both feel when we're together. I see the first date as just a good opportunity for us to get better acquainted. I love it when a women lets me know she's interested in me through her eyes, her energy, her effort - reaching out and making contact says it all. I'm looking for that special connection. That spark. Aren't we all? I encourage you to say hello. I'm a firm believer in taking things one step a time. What about you?