I just graduated this year, finally! For now I work as a bartender at a restaurant. My goal is to be able to quit my job by the end of the summer for a career in my field. (Graphic Design) I enjoy bartending, just not where I work. I used to be a rower and would love to buy my own boat someday if I can.
To be honest one of the most important things to me is that the someone that I end up with is financially stable. I don't mean rich, I just mean has a job. I've dated some guys without jobs and they mooch off their parents. I love it when my man can take me out to dinner and pay with his money, not his moms.
Don't get me wrong. I make my own money and am proud of it. I pay for everything I get and I like it that way.
It's been awhile since I've had a first date but dinner then talking somewhere outside, if its not too cold, like a park or something would be nice. I'm not a great cook so I wouldn't make anyone suffer through my cooking, on the first date. I enjoy movies, but I believe that on a first date you should spend as much time getting to know each other as possible, not watching a movie.