5/9/2016 I've been informed that my profile as written below, is too vague. Therefore I am adding this edit to be perfectly clear (or so I hope)
By not being a "big Party girl" means, that I do not frequent bars, or go out into large crowds to have a good time. Yes, I love going to a Cardinals and Blues Games, and I attend every one of my son's concerts that is in St Louis, but that is the extent of it. I am perfectly content at home watching the game or a good movie, alone or with friends, or a significant other. My idea of enjoying life is sitting around a fire, inside or out with family and or great friends, talking and laughing the time away, or watching the stars and listening to music I'm not into going into the city to enjoy life. I love road trips to nearby parks, lakes, rivers etc when the weather permits. That being said, I am not a "homebody" just sitting around letting life happen around me. I love life! Oh and I love reading a good book.
I don't know that I can be any more clear or on point than that. So, if you are looking for someone that wants to go out all the time, I'm obviously not the girl for you.
As my headline reads... I know what I'm looking for, I'll feel it when it's there... until then, I won't settle.
I am who I am. I home school my 16 yr old son. I also have a 29 yr old son who is a singer in a band, he lives in St Louis. They recently got signed with a record label. Needless to say, I'm very proud of him. I am not a big party person, I like to sit on the porch and watch the sunset, or a good thunderstorm. I like to crochet..and I love white tigers. My son and I go exploring when we can, just driving around checking out new areas, or going to the lakes, or parks, or whatever. I love hockey. I'm from St Louis, so .. Let's Go Blues! :) I like the St Louis Cardinals as well.
I thought I was too picky in what I am looking for, but a good friend told me, I'm not, the things I want are normal.
I want to meet someone that I can't wait to see again...that I miss when we are apart. I want chemistry and attraction, that comes easily. I want someone honest and someone who knows how to communicate. I want him to be himself, and for me to be myself and be comfortable with that. I love to laugh and poke fun, so a sense of humor is a must.
I am an affectionate person, love to hold hands, touch.. and kiss.,
I do have several tattoos... and I am not a thin woman by any means. I'm comfortable with my body, but if you don't like women with some meat on their bones, I'm not for you.
Oh, and since I've been on this website, I'm reminded that I better mention that manners and common courtesy are also qualities I am looking for!
In case you haven't figured it out ... I want a long term relationship.
I am very laid back and straight forward. If you get upset easily over silly things, if you can't forgive and forget and move on quickly, move on to the next profile. Life's too short.
You would think that by our age, EVERYONE would have learned how to communicate their HONEST feelings. If you don't know how to do that, please do not bother talking to me. I don't mean to sound brash on this, but it is so so important. I would much rather you hurt me with the truth and move on, then to find out you have lied to me...or be ignored. It's already tough enough to be dating, but at our age let's at least stop the games.
Well, I am old fashioned, I believe the man should come to the woman, at first. I like being able to sit and talk, get to know each other, either with some wine, or coffee...