So, here I find myself and not quite sure I'm enjoying it. I find this "online dating" to be both annoying and yet, sometimes entertaining. I think we all come on here with the intent of meeting new people and hopefully finding that One, but is it really possible? I remain a skeptic but try to keep an open mind. A little contradictory, I know. But still, curious about the journey.
So, let's see...My friends say I am deep and complex and fun to be out with. My guy friends can't understand why I haven't been scooped up yet. So do I, by the way!! But apparently, finding someone at this stage is not as easy as it once was. Seems the ones I'm attracted to are attached and the ones that come after me, are also attached. Grrrr....not cool! Anyway, I am intelligent, attractive, sometimes strong willed, sometimes sassy, but very sweet. I love to laugh and have fun. I'm super comfortable in black dress formal, and just as comfortable in t-shirt, jeans casual. I can be somewhat complicated at times, but I've been told its quite intriguing. Communication is key as well as physical attraction and intellectual chemistry. I'm not interested in going back and forth with emails and text messages for weeks on end. Although, I understand they are necessary in the initial process, I think too much texting and emailing is sometimes, well, just too much. I have no problem sharing who I am and frankly, I tend to do that to a fault. Once I feel I have your interest, I will give 100% in order for you to know me. The initial meeting is an integral part to this.. you either feel a connection or you don't. Don't get me wrong, I understand it is not always right there and I understand that sometimes slight attractions can grow into more deep and stronger ones, and do not count those out. But, there has to be some sort of a connection, whether it be physical or mental and I risk sounding shallow by saying, the physical attraction is pretty important.
What sparks my interest? A man who knows who he is and what he wants out of life. You should be stable, strong, secure and able to make a decision. Independent, strong work ethic, goals and values are also very attractive. If you can teach me something or open up a new world to me...even better.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something low key....we can decide this together.