We can make each other laugh at the drop of a hat. I'm great by myself, but I'm a force of nature with her in my life. She and I communicate even when we're upset with each other. She's my best friend, my partner in life and my lover all rolled into one.
DISCLAIMER: READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME ALL FRUSTRATED ABOUT THIS POINT...there was actually a woman who didn't read the whole thing and just railed against me like I was an idiot...BUT SHE WAS THE ONE WHO DIDN'T READ...LOL... I don't date just to date. I date with a purpose. Yes, I'm down for going out and having a good time. But, I'm trying to see what you're about. I'm not looking at you like you're just an option. I'm not going to push you to do anything you don't want to do. We'll keep it light up front and decide what we want to do later. Please know that I'm REALLY tired of coming out of my pocket the first time I meet someone. IT'S FREAKIN' EXPENSIVE...lol. So, I hope you don't mind if we go "Dutch" on the first meeting. Don't worry. I'm not cheap. But, if you're not the "One", I mean, do you see how our time and money has gone to waste...hahahaha... If you're not on that wavelength, kindly pass me by...but you'll be MISSING SOMETHING...hahahaha. I elaborate further on this point in the First Date section.
I like how she's able to carry herself like royalty in public, but change into sweats and one of my t-shirts at the house. I like trying new foods, but nothing TOO EXTRAVAGANT. I mean, come on, we gotta keep it recognizable. We'll eat somewhere expensive, but she's quick to suggest some place simple because she and I have "savings goals". Though I'll pull out my wallet, she'll offer to pay for it...AND MEAN IT. She's not the type of woman to offer to chip in just for looks and show. She knows we're in this TOGETHER, and just like she's trying to make it, I'm trying to make it, too.
She's got issues! No, I'm not saying I like a crazy woman. But, just like EVERY other human being, she's got issues and emotional baggage. The difference is how she handles it and if she's trying to work those issues out. In addition, to whom is she looking to help with those issues? She's looking to her Creator for strength and assistance. She speaks to ME about those issues because she trusts me to keep her secrets...just like I will trust her to keep mine. We talk to each other SECOND, but to GOD FIRST. Yep, I'm a Christian and I'm not apologizing for it. That's all I've got to say about that.
She cooks! And, I mean SHE THROWS DOWN! But, though she cooks, she cooks HEALTHY foods. I'm trying to give her something she can look at even when we're 70...lol. I'm also trying to make it past 90. So, let's be healthy and live life. I'm a stocky dude with a good amount of muscle on his body. Yes, just like her, I have a little fat, too. But, that's leaving even as I write this. She doesn't look at me like I should be a model. However, she wants me in good physical condition because she wants a family in the future....but I AM trying to be her model...hahaha.... We can't be lazy and overweight while trying to run behind our kids. Yes, I want a family! Won't apologize for that, either.
She and I want to try new things; go new places; travel...stuff like that. But, we LOVE a quiet evening at home that can turn "fun". No, I'm not promiscuous. I'm not apologizing for not being what society says I SHOULD be, or sleeping with as many women as society says I SHOULD. That's all I'm saying about that...If she wants it, she'll show me why she deserves it...and she does the same with me.
I'm not arguing with a woman! She'll win, anyway! But, she needs to understand that I'm not leaving. So, if she's mad, she better go into the next room and chill out, because we're working this out, RIGHT NOW. Too many relationships end because people don't talk. That's not happening here. So, get ready to open your mouth and talk to a man about your feelings...a man that WILL listen. I might not say much back, because I'm a guy and we process things internally, but I WILL talk more than other men.
Together, she and I are going to take over the world, and have a family that will continue the legacy. Yes, again, I said family. You down? For those who don't understand the urban vernacular: You up for the challenge?
I'm her best friend, her partner in life, and her lover all rolled into one.
1. Movies (can't live without 'em...I'm a screenwriter, for crying out loud...)
2. Food (great-tasting food is a gift from God...Be honest with yourself and tell me you don't enjoy the hell out of your favorite food. Seriously.)
3. Working out (wanna give her something she can look at)
4. Faith (it's not at the top of the list, here, but it is at the top in my life)
5. (enter your name here, if you think you fit the description above...then you'll be at the top of the list)
Now, see, the first date is crucial...and I mean the REAL FIRST DATE...not the first time we met... However, it depends on how the lady presents herself to me. I'm not going to break the bank on the first date because there will be little to look forward to later. We move in stages. However, dinner and a movie is bland. I want to get to know you. So, don't be surprised if we go to a good restaurant and find ourselves in a good conversation over your favorite wine or drink. Why? Again, WE are the point of interest...not the location or how much the bill is.
I'm all about making sure she's comfortable. If she's not comfortable, then I'm not comfortable. How can a man be okay with the lady on his arm being out of sorts about something? So, wherever we go or whatever we do, if you're not feeling it, there will be an immediate change of plans. The caveat to this is whether or not she's into trying new things. If you're not feeling it even before we walk into wherever we're going for whatever we're going to do simply because you've never experienced it, I'm going to need you to open your mind...just as I would do for you. Don't worry, girl. I got you. I ain't gonna let anything happen to you. Relax. You're with me...lol
So, that first date depends on what we're both interested in. That being said, I wanna know your interests. This first date almost really depends on you, baby-girl.
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