Born & raised San Diegan who has spent the last couple years on the east coast. I've been told I'm a unique walking contradiction. So yes the don't judge a book by its cover motto definitely applies. I'm a very open-minded yet traditional gal. I'm a city girl with a country girl heart. I love getting dolled up and going to a bar or restaurant, museum, art show, play, etc. but I also love hiking, camping, desert runs, riding motorcycles, and putting on my cowgirl boots and heading out of the city for some country living. I enjoy concert/festivals and traveling.
Yes physical attraction is very important, but the ability to truly converse is a huge plus. No ghettoness please... I also prefer a man who is active and prefers being outdoors... morning hikes & walks are nice especially in good company. But a nice evening in with a home cooked meal, wine/beer and Netflix is also fine in my book. FYI I'm pretty good in the kitchen.
Anyways if I don't respond please don't be offended but I'd rather not waste your time.