This site and this State are very much taking a toll. I am sorry but I have not had the best dating experiences the last 6 months. I am a very loyal, caring, passionate, man. I am a single father of an awesome 12 year old boy. I absolutely love kids and hang out with mine because I love to not because I have to. I DO NOT PLAY GAMES!!!! I have heard some of the most ridiculous sh*t in my life the last 6 months. Look I am a very down to earth normal guy. I do like to stay fit, I don't do drugs, I am not a smoker (but if u are a clean smoker that is not an issue) are these not good qualities. I love to talk about anything. I am very affectionate and outgoing. I won't forget our wedding anniversary or your birthday lol! I am not shy and i will act a fool. I am really looking for a best friend, partner, soulmate. I no this all sounds to good to be true but it is the gods honest truth. If you are messed up and not ready to date or think that while you date me you should be dating 8 other guys please leave me out of that equation. I am almost 38 come June and I am to old for this shit. I enjoy occasionally going out and having a good time but I am no raging alcoholic so if that's your thing leave me out. I will say this, I am not good at this dating online fiasco . I am a normal social person who has no qualm walking up to you and talking. However, it seems creepy that I read your profile and no all kinds of information about you and then I message you. To me it seems backwards and i admit I am not very smooth at it. I don't want naked pics or crazy sex talk over POF. If we hit it off all that will come in a more appropriate manner later. I am by no means a perfect guy so get that out of your head and don't try and use it against me. I do know who I am and what I want though. Ladies I want a women! I don't want a girl that needs attention from 100 POF or match.com guys to feel good about herself. I no how life works. Don't tell me how important your children are to you while your in the middle of a custody battle and your drinking, partying, and lying. Keep sh*t HONEST! I really don't no why this concept seems so ridiculous to some of you. I can handle any truth!